I left my daughter's biological father right before her second birthday. I met my husband right before her third birthday. My daughter's biological father did not care to see her much or play the father role (even when we were living together) until he discovered my new relationship with my current husband when she was about 3.5 years old. He then began fighting me for custody. Currently he has her >30% of the time and during his two days a week he does some serious mental damage. My poor baby loves her stepdad and she even started calling him "daddy" on her own when she was 3. Her biological father tells her this is wrong, and that it is bad for her to call him "daddy", and recently even tried to convince her that her stepdad does not love her. These are just a couple of the many things he has done in attempt to destroy my daughter and her stepfather's relationship. I'm afraid it is working, because she has started to pull away from her stepdad, and put up a wall that wasn't there before. I've tried talking to her biological father to explain how his comments were affecting my daughter and hurting her. He doesn't care, he just gets worse. I know my baby loves her biological father and I don't want to take her away from that, but he is doing more harm than good. I was hoping to meet others who can relate to my situation. It's just so frustrating, and I don't know what else to do to help my blended family live happily.