DH and i were recently having alot of problems. We're doing much better now , but there was still something up.
There was a post that got me thinking , so today i asked my DH if he felt like i pushed him to the side when Aubrey (our 4 month old) was born.
He admitted that he felt unimportant to me now , like i didn't want to spend time with him because im so busy all of the time.
I'll admit , i AM busy. Im breastfeeding , i cook and clean and do laundry and all that good stuff that SAHM's do. I thought i was giving him enough attention but now i realize that i was trying to fit him into my new life instead of making him a priority just like Aubrey is.
It shouldn't be Aubrey - House - DH. It should be Aubrey AND DH , then whatever else followed. Im just trying to be a home maker :(
But i can't find the balance of it all. Can anyone help me with this problem ?
Im sorry if i rambled or if it doesn't make sense , feel free to ask me to clarify. Im just so sad that i didn't notice this :(
on Apr. 30, 2012 at 12:07 AM