If your husband invited someone to an ultrasound (his "best friend") with out telling you or communicating the idea at all? This will be our "Gender Check" since I'll be 18 wks and change. So this is the BIG one!
A few notes:
1) only reason I found out is because I heard the guy talking to his ex saying "yeah I'm going with Cowboy ans Star to their ultrasound weds morning"
2) I have a personal high dislike of this guy! Yes, when we were kicked out of our last place he elt us move in (about a week and a half ago) BUT he has had DH helping him at "work" and promising to split the pay, then not giving him ANY money at all!
3) this is mine and DH FIRST LO together! We have always talked about making it special for US! No dealing with people fighting over who gets to be in the delivery room. We share all info TOGETHER (via FB, or family get togethers etc)
So, would you be upset overhearing something like that?
***UPDATE*** So among MANY other things, i brought it up to DH tonight about over hearing his friends phone call. Apparently DH had NO CLUE Mac, his friend, was "planning" on going. He said Mac asked when we got to find out and DH said first thing weds, hopefully we dont have as long of a wait or i need to bring entertainment" (last time, they had my appt time wrong, they told me 8:30, but that was actually the check in time, m apptwas at 9, and they were 30 mins behind so we were wating like an hour and a half! ) i guess Mac took that to mean he ws gong to be the entertainment?!?! or that was his "invite"!?!?
Either way, DH is going to talk to him tomorrow and explain that we REALLY want this to be just us. its OUR baby, its OUR future,100% US! we want it to be just that! and we were planning on going to our little spot by the river to start thinking of names! He is also going to bring upthat its not right hes volunteering his presense at sucha personal event. Hopefully dumb ass gets the idea and we dont have to get to the point of calling the hospital!