dont even know how to react anymore,my husband told me before how he kissed another girl,even though shes fat and ugly it still hurts,and i found out 2 days ago that he kissed her 2 other times.so im fuckin pissed and im sick of stupid skanks not realizing ''THAT WHEN A MAN HAS A RING ON HIS FINGER,LEAVE HIM THE FUCK ALONE"!! i know it was both of them.not just her but she didnt help the situation either. how do i move on from this,is it even possilbe?
***DEBBIE***
Quoting coupon_ash_back:You have the right to be upset, ESPECIALLY at him.
Don't let other's get to you. You are a big girl, you know who is at fault.
:-/ Sunday will be 2 weeks since I found out.
Quoting wendyanna:I am going through this whole mess right now too. Its so hard. Mine cheated and had an affair for several months. He finally came clean about a month ago and i kicked him out. Im so sad and hurt, its truly heartbreaking. i think it is mostly the mans responsibility but the women does to if she knows he is married and has a family. In my case the women knew about me and our son. Lets just say, she better hope i never see her.
re read my post i said i know it was both of them,not just her but she didnt help the situation...
***DEBBIE***
Quoting MamaHome:Yep, and some husbands claim that the marriage is over (if they even disclose that they are married). Doesnt make it right, but it happens...
OP:
I'm not saying thats what happened, but its understandable that you are upset. It's okay to be angry, in fact its healthy. Just be careful that you are not being blinded by your anger towards her, therefore releasing your husband from any responsibility. That happens far too often.
Quoting ambermarie2006:In most cases the other woman doesn't even realize he's married. My ex-husband cheated and when I found the other woman she broke down crying because she never knew he was married. He would take his ring off and never talk about his family.
The only way you can work through it is to deal with your husband. He is the one that vowed to you, he's the one who broke your trust.
omfg ppl,cant stand getting bashed ,especially right now,im going through alot..not just this matter,with my family issues too, I KNOW IT WAS BOT OF THEM!!! I HAVE TOLD HIM EXACTLY HOW I FEEL ABOUT IT,AND HOW MUCH OF AN ASSHOLE PIECE OF SHIT HE IS...BUT I HAVENT GOTTEN TO VENT MUCH ABOUT HER,SO IT MAKES ME FEEL BETTER. SO GO BASH SOMEWHERE ELSE.I JUST WANTED SOME ADVICE ON HOW HEAL.CUZ I COULD USE SOME GOOD ADVICE,I DONT KNOW HOW TO FEEL ABOUT IT ANYMORE!
***DEBBIE***
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- graciesmom2010
on May. 2, 2012 at 8:23 PM