dont even know how to react anymore,my husband told me before how he kissed another girl,even though shes fat and ugly it still hurts,and i found out 2 days ago that he kissed her 2 other times.so im fuckin pissed and im sick of stupid skanks not realizing ''THAT WHEN A MAN HAS A RING ON HIS FINGER,LEAVE HIM THE FUCK ALONE"!! i know it was both of them.not just her but she didnt help the situation either. how do i move on from this,is it even possilbe?
***DEBBIE***
He broke his vows. He cheated. He lost the trust. He is the one you should be mad at.
It's not her responsibility to uphold your wedding vows, that's on him.
I would start with placing blame and anger where it belongs.
That is entirely up to you. Why did he do it? (There is no excuse for straying but whether or not it will happen again depends largely on why it happened in the first place.) Is he just a scummy guy who has no conscience or is he otherwise a good man who made bad choices?
There is life after an indiscretion like that, but you're the one that decides how things go from here. And you don't have to make a decision this second.
In most cases the other woman doesn't even realize he's married. My ex-husband cheated and when I found the other woman she broke down crying because she never knew he was married. He would take his ring off and never talk about his family.
The only way you can work through it is to deal with your husband. He is the one that vowed to you, he's the one who broke your trust.
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- graciesmom2010
on May. 2, 2012 at 8:23 PM