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Went to the Doctor today

Posted by on May. 7, 2012 at 6:15 PM
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for my 4 week check up and they could not find the babies heart beat. The doctor brought in an ultrasound machine and we seen the heart beat. I'm 17 weeks and 5 days so I asked if we could peek at the parts and he said it looks like I am having a princess. I'll find out for sure on the 24th.

Now I just wish DH would get excited about it and stop talking about adoption. I really want to know where my future stands and I can't if he isn't on board with keeping the baby.  :(

So please keep me in your thoughts and prayers that DH will start getting on board and be excited about it.


 BabyFruit Ticker
by on May. 7, 2012 at 6:15 PM
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JMKristy
by on May. 7, 2012 at 6:17 PM
Fingers crossed dh gets on board soon. What's his deal, why isn't he?
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Elle.tea.22
by on May. 7, 2012 at 6:21 PM
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I was at the doctor too. The heart beat sounded like the baby was sawing wood :-/ I was like "she's building a condo without my permission!"

SO was there and we did both sonograms, intro and external, I jumped around, doctor poked me, I sneezed, moved this way, that way, stood up, full bladder, empty bladder... And baby wouldn't let daddy see what she was! I'm sure it's a girl :P but she's Acting up cause is is the 1st time daddy sees her lol
ooCherryo0
by on May. 7, 2012 at 6:53 PM
DH isn't on board because he didn't want any more kids. We don't have all our finances in order but we are working on paying off bills and other stuff. We don't have a house payment because we own our home and it's plenty big enough for a new little one. No car payment... If we just cut some bills we don't need we can get caught up on others.
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nicole83adam05
by on May. 7, 2012 at 7:56 PM
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girl then keep the baby and drop him a baby is a beautful thing you don't need the man hell with him girl it's YOUR choice not his remember that k it's hard to be a single mother but there are sooo many and they are doing it remember that too

good luck

coupon_ash_back
by on May. 7, 2012 at 7:57 PM

Where did this logic come from 0_0?

Quoting nicole83adam05:

girl then keep the baby and drop him a baby is a beautful thing you don't need the man hell with him girl it's YOUR choice not his remember that k it's hard to be a single mother but there are sooo many and they are doing it remember that too

good luck


goodmama85
by on May. 7, 2012 at 7:59 PM
I agree with this I'm a single mother of two and expecting my third that was due this past sat lol. You can do it!!

Quoting nicole83adam05:

girl then keep the baby and drop him a baby is a beautful thing you don't need the man hell with him girl it's YOUR choice not his remember that k it's hard to be a single mother but there are sooo many and they are doing it remember that too


good luck

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Renee02
by on May. 7, 2012 at 8:00 PM

Um ok I am alil confused....You said they could not find the heart beat, so that made me think you might have lost the baby. And then u said ur DH isn't on board with having a baby BUT yet talking about adoption..Explain because I am lost with this post lol.

coupon_ash_back
by on May. 7, 2012 at 8:02 PM

Why are the women on CM always so quick to tell someone to leave their men?

She didn't say anything about a bad relationship, he's just not on board. I felt that way with dd2 for those same reasons,except my husband was on board like op.

They are in different places on this, not necessarily in trouble.


ETA: All i'm saying is, Just because someone feels that way now,doesn't mean they always will. I'm glad dh talked me into keeping dd2. I love her to pieces.  Also, don't just assume her man is a bastard because, he has a different opinion. Op will figure it out and do what is best for her family.

Quoting goodmama85:

I agree with this I'm a single mother of two and expecting my third that was due this past sat lol. You can do it!!

Quoting nicole83adam05:

girl then keep the baby and drop him a baby is a beautful thing you don't need the man hell with him girl it's YOUR choice not his remember that k it's hard to be a single mother but there are sooo many and they are doing it remember that too


good luck


nicole83adam05
by on May. 7, 2012 at 8:04 PM

girl he wants her to abort the baby screw that think about it that's bullshit and I have seen this before keep the baby and if he doesn't like it leave him don't abort the baby becuase he wants to it's YOUR choice like I said :)

coupon_ash_back
by on May. 7, 2012 at 8:05 PM

I think her post said adoption..

Quoting nicole83adam05:

girl he wants her to abort the baby screw that think about it that's bullshit and I have seen this before keep the baby and if he doesn't like it leave him don't abort the baby becuase he wants to it's YOUR choice like I said :)


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