Suggestions?? Ideas??? Opinions?? Anything ...I need some help!!!
SO, Im leaving to PR with my girls to see my mom and grandprents. My husband(married for 4 yrs) decided to stya bc of $$$....crap! My issue is that he seems to be perfectly fine about me leaving. He s making plans, letting people know that im leaving. Im starting to feel extremely insecure and bad about myslef. I have been feeling bad about myself for a long time. I gain weight after my last pregnancy and i just cant loose it, i feel really ugly and i feel as if i dont get any attention at all. For example, even when i go to the stores i dont even have guys looking at me. * we have to be honest, it does feel good when a guy is looking at u! Not touching or saying nasty things but actually admiring that u look pretty*. I just need something....he says he loves me, we have sex like once or twice a wk. Its just not enough for me. i know that if i loose the weight it will help but me feeling down makes me want to eat all day and do nothing.
I kind of want him to miss me but i just dont know if thats even possible. What can i do??? How can i get him to look for me and not the other way around??? How do girls get the guy to be all over the them?