Long story but here's a short version. My ex (son's dad) is currently living with me. He pays no bills, all he does is watch our son (please don't dwell on this fact in the responses I already know). Well I came home from work early yesterday (he didn't know I was coming home) and he's sitting in my living with his girlfriend (who doesn't like me). I flipped out and told them both she has no business in my home. I said someone who disrepsects me shouldn't be here and if he wants to see her then they need to get their own place or she needs to get her own place (she is living with her mom). They are both acting like my flipping out was wrong, like I did something. He doesn't understand how it's disrespectful that she was here and she just said "well he invited me and you never said something before". Well I didn't know she was coming before. And I said right in front of her to him "you pay nothing here, this is my home. And you have no business having other females in my home". I did flip out a little more then needed because I was already pissed because of work and that just topped it off. But am I wrong for being mad? Please be honest. Him and her feel I was wrong and obviously my friends think he's a dickhead and she's a moron. So I want to ask you ladies for your honest opinion.