Long story but here's a short version. My ex (son's dad) is currently living with me. He pays no bills, all he does is watch our son (please don't dwell on this fact in the responses I already know). Well I came home from work early yesterday (he didn't know I was coming home) and he's sitting in my living with his girlfriend (who doesn't like me). I flipped out and told them both she has no business in my home. I said someone who disrepsects me shouldn't be here and if he wants to see her then they need to get their own place or she needs to get her own place (she is living with her mom). They are both acting like my flipping out was wrong, like I did something. He doesn't understand how it's disrespectful that she was here and she just said "well he invited me and you never said something before". Well I didn't know she was coming before. And I said right in front of her to him "you pay nothing here, this is my home. And you have no business having other females in my home". I did flip out a little more then needed because I was already pissed because of work and that just topped it off. But am I wrong for being mad? Please be honest. Him and her feel I was wrong and obviously my friends think he's a dickhead and she's a moron. So I want to ask you ladies for your honest opinion.
Your house, your rules. Tell him if he don't like it pack his things and GTFO
This is how I feel. I told him if he would have discussed it with me I probably would have said no, but would have had some respect because he asked me. I feel like this just shows that neither one of them respects me.
Quoting lilmama8408:
I think u have the right to be upset. He doesn't pay bills and even tho y'all arnt together he should have asked if it was ok.
I told him that last night, I think he thinks I said that because I was mad. But I'm at the point where I'm tired of it and will be having a serious talk with him when I see him.
Quoting raye-chan:Your house, your ules. Tell him if he don't like it pack his things and GTFO
I wouldn't even have the serious talk with him honestly. He brought a stranger into your home without permission and they don't care about it. He's using you by not paying and he's taking advantage of that.
Makes me wonder how many times she's been over while you're gone to make her act like it was no big deal.
Quoting cjsmom1:I told him that last night, I think he thinks I said that because I was mad. But I'm at the point where I'm tired of it and will be having a serious talk with him when I see him.
Quoting raye-chan:Your house, your ules. Tell him if he don't like it pack his things and GTFO
Thanks. They're both saying I'm crazy and over reacting. And she pretty much said she doesn't care what I say she'll come whenever she wants.
Quoting heatherd09:
Um no your not being wrong! It is your home! He has no right to bring anybody there without your permission! He's lucky your even letting him live there for free.
I know her, but don't care for her. I have only seen her a few times but they have been together for almost 3 years. I've seen her maybe 5 times throughout those years. She made it sound like she's here all the time when I'm at work.
Quoting raye-chan:I wouldn't even have the serious talk with him honestly. He brought a stranger into your home without permission and they don't care about it. He's using you by not paying and he's taking advantage of that.
Makes me wonder how many times she's been over while you're gone to make her act like it was no big deal.
umm no you wasn't wrong lol he needs to move the hell out of there
Let's See *pic post!
Who does my dd look like more?
- cjsmom1
on May. 19, 2012 at 7:03 PM