I get home and he seriously says this... advice? (same post, diff. group)
So, i work an 8 hour day, and am at softball games with the kids for three hours, running around after my 3 yr old the whole time. You can imagine how my days go.
I get home at 9 lastnight from my daughters games and he's asleep on the couch. i make the bed so he and the baby can go to bed. i wake him up to go to the bed and he says, (in his whiney voice) "make me something to eat, im starving". i was like wtf?!
I didn't have much of a filter after he told me that and i said, "you have been home since 6 and still have the audacity to ask me to make you something to eat? you're a grown ass man, you can make your own dinner!"
He rarely helps with the kids, our son being ours, my daughters from a previous marriage, so he's not really involved with anything they do. he's freaking lazy!!!!
I always make dinner unless i have games to go to that are always 30 minutes away, so its an hour total drive at LEAST 3 times a week. Not only that, but im gonna get a second job to make ends meet.
Usually the day after he says something douchey like that, we'll talk about it over txt while at work but he hasnt txt or anything. Apparently this is gonna be a bigger issue. im not his frkn slave! i do his laundry, cook, clean the house, work, take care of kids and ALL THEIR needs, plus his, and apparently its not enough?!
How do i tell him maturely what i feel? He gets mad real easy so i dont wanna end up having a mojor fight over this... i just want him to realize what a douche bag he is. ive even taken the rap for him on a car accident so he wouldnt go to jail and had my license revoked because of it. HE asked me to take the rap. its not like i wanted to do it.
Sigh, i know i deserve better but its hard to start over. i dont have family or means to get my own place.
i just need help to make him realize all this :(