They had just found out she's pregnant. She decided to have an abortion. She says she just can't deal with being a single mom, they weren't trying to get pregnant. Today she called to ask me to foster his cats until she can find them a new home (probably can't I've been looking for a new home for MY cats for months & haven't been able to- DHs allergies are going nuts).
Then she asked me to wish her luck with her abortion on Friday. I just couldn't. I am so emotional about this. I told her I'm here for her if she needs me, but I just can't pretend I'm okay with it. I'm not okay with it. I understand why, but I just can't wish her luck.
I hope I didn't just alienate her or hurt our friendship, do you think this was an appropriate response?