My SO has not had a license for 10years because he was pulled over for speeding in a work zone rushing to get his ex to work. She has a very good job and never offered to help him get his license back while together. now that him and i have been together for a year its been hard to save money. we just found out today it will cost him $700 plus a $500 reinstatement fee to get his license back. I feel so stuck because I try to help him save some of my money to but in the meantime I cant fix my car or buy hardly anything. his ex has a brand new car, nice clothes and lives with her mother and father and pays no rent even though shes 30. I feel its very unfair. I'm trying to help and we are together and I would expect him to help me if I were in the situation but its very draining. he has a very limited income because he is legally disabled due to MS.
Quoting sissy852:
that is a lot of money. States dont normally pull a licence for just one speeding offence
Quoting Austinsmommy126:
he lost it 10 years ago, and you've only been together for a year, but you're stressing out on how to help him pay for it? i'm sorry, but no way in hell would I do that! in ten years i'm sure your SO has had the chance to save up and pay it on his own! if he really wanted it taken care of, he would have done it by now. jmo.
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- roxychic5432007
on May. 23, 2012 at 5:06 PM