So me and my husband wanted to plan a day weekend trip for our family this summer because thats all we can afford especially with a new baby on the way. So his family guilted on going on another trip with them, saying grandma is not going to be around forever.....So we are only going up to the dells for only 3 days while the rest of them are going for 8 days. Now it comes to the time we have to pay the money. The cottage is going to be 14 people and its only 2000 for the 8 days. well i figured it out that it would only cost us 143 for us to go up there the days we were going. well guess what its not enough. His mom, aunt and grandma are the only ones paying and they want more. The other 8 people are adults but sponge off their parents so they dont have to pay anything even the ones who work. remind you they are all over 22 years old. UGh!! so why do we have to pay their share they are not my children. I just cant stand his family sometimes. They think we are made of money and seriously we are not we are just starting over because the economy hit us really hard. so forgive us if we are trying to make it on our own and pay bills like responsible adults. remind you also his mother is in her 40s and still lives at home and pays no bills. so its a generation thing with them. so my husband thanks me everyday for getting him out of that situation and teaching him how to be an adult because no one else was going to. ugh!!!! thanks for listening.