My husband's sister is accusing me of her son (who she left when he was 4 years old and wouldn't have even gotten into contact with after 25 years if it wasn't for me) having to go back to Kentucky because he moved out of our house after being asked to leave. We suppported him for 6 months (spent a total of $6,000 on him for cigerettes and dip, medications, doctors, food, utilities, and random things he may have needed) and he lied to us and on us, started fights between my husband and I, and was even screwing his half sister. But yet I am the reason for him leaving.
Anyways, she blames me and told me that I am not worthy of his last name (we have been together for almost 8 years and have 2 kids together - we aren't officially married yet because of my education - I get more money being classified as a single mom), and that she is going to get him a good woman because I am a b***h.
Well, today he went over to her house instead of going to cash a money order which had to be done by noon. When he got home an hour later he lied and said he was at the auto store putting in transmission fluid. Like I am seriously that stupid that I would believe that. He eventually told me he went over there and talked to his niece (the one the nephew was screwing).
I would hurry up taking a test to take her drunk a$$ home, I would wake up at 6 am to take her daughter to school (when I homeschool my kids and we don't wake up till 9) because she had to be at work early, I missed New Years with my husband because the kids (my 2 and her youngest) weren't allowed at the party, I bent over backwards for that woman for a kick in the face.
I went off on him after hearing that. I was so pissed because I felt that he betrayed me. At points in the 8 years I have given up my family for him. He tells me that he doesn't want her back over here yet he goes to talk to her because he wants to "mend our relationship." There is NOTHING that anyone can do to fix it.
How should I take the fact that he is talking to her? Should I feel like he is choosing her over me? What can I do to stop feeling like this?
I am just so confused and upset that I don't know what to do - any advice would help! Thank you!