Well ladies........piog

[Meg2011425]

For the past couple weeks I've been seeing a man named Shane. He is amazing and loves me and my son. I couldn't ask for anything else. I'm so damn happy. He's been treating my son like he's his dad and my son loves him too. Today he texted me this message, 

"We are officially engaged besides going to look at rings baby". 

I'm crying happy tears and I'm just as happy as ever. Just thought id share. 

[CheerBugg1585]

Congrats! Hope you get a ring u love!

[beaularson91]

Wow op don't let all the negativity get to you....cuz apparently they all think people who get engaged right away are stupid.....they all assume that guys who propose early are creeps and after something..... As long as you know about him and you are happy don't let theses women get you to doubt yourself

[emeraldangel20]

Quoting beaularson91:

Quoting emeraldangel20:

i am not going to congratulate you. dating him for two weeks is not long enough to even introduce him to your son, much less decide if you want to be with him for the rest of your life.

but hey, it's your life. maybe it will be different. i doubt it, but what do i know?

I moved in with my dh after a week of dating got engaged after a month got pregnant on purpose after two months and got married after three months and we just had our first wedding anniversary last month....why do people feel the need put there two cents in.....her happiness has nothing to do with you nor does it affect you so why do you even have an opinion....go rain on someone elses parade

wow, your first. whoop de doo almost all divorced people made it to their first wedding anniversary. i dont give a flying fuck what you have to say, both you and the OP are irresponsible.

i may have a child with a man i'm not married to, but i didn't plan her and i waited until i really knew him to commit to him in such a personal way. i have a right to my opinion and if you dont like it then get the fuck over it and stop being so damn defensive.

[Sam.Marie]

Congrats!


I met my hubby Aug. 21, 2005. Started dating 2 wks later, moved in together 3 days later. Started talking marriage a wk after that. Got engaged Nov. 20, 2005. We have been married 6yrs now.

We moved fast and we are still happy so it can happen

Good luck and Congrats again!

[aidenmomplus4]

Congrats. 

[beaularson91]

yup totally irrisponsible i knew him for  two years before we started dating and when i first met him i had my uncle (whos a cop) run a background check....i didnt include that in the other post to prove my point....you dont know her situation or anything about her fiancee but you autimatically assume that its  so horrible get over yourself and who got defensive? rrriiiggghhhtttt cuz all i said is to stop being so down on her who started swearing at who? uh huh go you

Quoting emeraldangel20:

Quoting beaularson91:

Quoting emeraldangel20:

i am not going to congratulate you. dating him for two weeks is not long enough to even introduce him to your son, much less decide if you want to be with him for the rest of your life.

but hey, it's your life. maybe it will be different. i doubt it, but what do i know?

I moved in with my dh after a week of dating got engaged after a month got pregnant on purpose after two months and got married after three months and we just had our first wedding anniversary last month....why do people feel the need put there two cents in.....her happiness has nothing to do with you nor does it affect you so why do you even have an opinion....go rain on someone elses parade

wow, your first. whoop de doo almost all divorced people made it to their first wedding anniversary. i dont give a flying fuck what you have to say, both you and the OP are irresponsible.

i may have a child with a man i'm not married to, but i didn't plan her and i waited until i really knew him to commit to him in such a personal way. i have a right to my opinion and if you dont like it then get the fuck over it and stop being so damn defensive.

[Meg2011425]

I am not a fast piece of ass. I don't sleep with a guy on the first date. Yes I have ran a background check on him and he has no record. He has a job and a supportive nice family. I don't care what your opinion is everyone has one. I'm not the type to start drama that's not what I'm doing. I've met him more than once and I talk to him daily. He's not playing daddy with my son. Get your fucking facts straight before you come here and judge me for doing something differently. When you are in my shoes then try to say something but your not. You don't know me or anything I do.

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[beaularson91]

Quoting Meg2011425:

Woot! Get er momma get er! Lol

[haydensmom4610]

I'm not going to bash you, but if you have only been dating for 2 weeks then you are still in that "honeymoon" period of your relationship. That is not a good time to get married! Date for a while and make sure that feeling is going to last before you put yourself and your son through that. Good luck.

[jlocsgirl]

Wow, that's not smart... 2 weeks of dating and you're already engaged? Honestly, think about your kid. You barely know the guy! If you didn't have a son, I would say congrats, but you are putting yourself first and that's not right. Please wait a couple years before jumping into a marriage!!