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After all this...marriage?

Posted by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 12:50 AM
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Currently preggers with twin girls,four kids 9 long years of relationship and now my dear better half brings up marriage is it worth it?time?money?...and no I promise not to ar wite
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 12:50 AM
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coupon_ash_back
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 12:59 AM

um yea..most would want that 0_o

Kmansfield
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 1:02 AM
If you do think it is then no or just go down to the justice of the peace and not have a big wedding. There are plenty of people who aren't married but live a life like thy are. Insaybdo what ever works for you.
JesusJunkie
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 1:04 AM
Don't do the big tada just get married and wear white of u want too!
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KenzieQsMommy
by Platinum Member on Jun. 16, 2012 at 1:06 AM
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I'm getting married after 6 years together and just one kiddo and heck yeah I'm wearing white!! I don't care that the jig is up, its my day dammit! Lol
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SookieRose
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 1:14 AM
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 oh yes, marriage is worth it! The happiness and the joy that comes with it. you guys have a lotta kids together on top of it. why not make it "official Official??"....

LongBeachLiz
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 1:16 AM
Do you live in a common law state? If not then yes marriage is more important on a legal basis.
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Shermy
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 1:38 AM
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Legally I see a worth to it. 

Relationship wise, it is something I value. Saying "worth it" is hard because people's values vary so significantly.  What do you find valuable about marriage? What does marriage mean to you? 

mstevens10
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 12:15 PM

marriage is sacred to me so yes imo its well worh it

snb8604
by Silver Member on Jun. 16, 2012 at 12:28 PM

 If you've been together this long and have so many kids why not? Might as well make it official. Its definitely worth it

IWannaLoveAgain
by on Jun. 16, 2012 at 12:44 PM

if its already good the way it is- why change it? but thats just me..

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