A little background...I have a ds from previous relationship. Bf walked out on us 4 years ago and hasn't been seen since, only heard from him twice and he said if he can't have me he doesn't want ds. That was....a little over a year ago while I was living with dh ( he was df at that time ) but dh has stepped up to plate and loves and adores ds. He is dad to ds. The only person ds knows as a dad. We are now TTC but are having a lot of problems and dh has to have some procedures to see if he is fixable. And you know what dh told me? It's ok if he's not bc ds is an amazing son and he would be ok if he is our only child. Granted, I know he wants more, as do I, but that melted my heart. And he brags on ds too much to everyone, its always my son this, my son that. It's nice to know there are still some great men out there like my dh. And yes, I knew dh loved my son before we married. I wouldn't have married him had I thought differently. And dh talked to ds about us getting married before he even asked me. Well, talked about it as much as you can with a 5 yo.
Im sure ill get bashed by someone for something, but here's what I have to say to you......F**k off.