My SO is friends with a girl that he used to sleep with. the relationship was primarily sex and he says that it just never blossomed into anything.. to me you can't be friends with sex partners or old flames it's just dis tasteful. I FIND IT AWKWARD that they text one another constantly, but she's supposed to be engaged and just had a baby over a month ago.. Im due in August. He say's that there just friends and that she asks about me all the time (rolling eyes) but she added on me a facebook and never said a SINGLE thing I never even knew who she was until he saw and pointed out that I had added her. If she's so baby friendly and wanted to be friends with me, wouldn't she introduce herself?? it's been MONTHS.??
At first I put up with it. but it just became too much and I don't need the added stress. So I told him out of respect for me could you please not mention her to me or your convos, because it makes me feel uncomfortable :/. I never said that he had stop being her friends just don't mention her to me. he kinda threw a huff and said ok. I asked to see his phone other day and he got flustered and said no.. i asked why and he said "well let me see yours" i offered it to him and he looked strange just said no again then walked away??
My bff is moving away so I was complaining about not going to have her around. he didnt care and said good ridience and that i'll make more friends. And the girl he used to sleep with is already planning my new baby and her baby play dates wtf?? I DONT EVEN KNOW HER.
He called her recently and her fiance got on the phone and was really nasty to him. about why he was calling? what did he want? and who was he? I guess i'm not the only one that feels this way..
my thing is if they cared about their SO's( US) feeling wouldn't they cool it or just stop??
Sooo cussed him out hung up on him & I deleted him and her and blocked him from calling or texting me. Me and my LO just dont need the stress..AM I OVERREACTING?