Eeverytime I leave the house for something -[OBGYN appointmnts, food shopping ect..]
I come to a circus LOL
AFter having a shit fit about the little girl next door and her father asking us to open our pool bc THEY want a pool part and I said no because of lack of funds
i come home from my obgyn appnt to a pool opening company at my house talking prices.
My 1st reaction was to SCREAM at my neighbors, i find out that it was my HUSBAND who called them bc he wanted to throw me a baby shower/pool party because he just for a bonus for hardwork at his job.
I dont know if i should be pissed or happy he'd think of throwing a baby shower but i don't need my noseyass neighbors trying to come over evryday now..[please refer to my control your daughter post]
they havent opened it they just are giving estimates seeing it's July and we have a swamp growing under the cover bc of the heat
he also told me he ordered a new crib and bedset from the nursey with the bonus. so atleast he's not bullshitting our money away.
How do I deal with THIS ONE lmao