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[paytertotsmomma]

Hi I'm Kristen. I just turned 21. My daughter is turning 2 in a few days then my baby boy is due a month later. My daughters father is in the navy. I'm now engaged to one of my friends brothers lol. I've known him for 7 years and always loved flirting and obbsessing over him LOL. But i grew up and moved away. Then his sis found me on fb. Some may call me a home wrecker cause he was in a relationship and has 4 kids with her but in all fairness he told me he wasn't happy with her and never had been. Sometimes you need a little push to leave a bad situation. Well I just wanted to introduce myself that way y'all aren't confused when I start posting LOL. Feel free to ask questions but please don't judge :)

[Chelsea_rh]

Welcome to the group! I'm glad that you are reunited and happy with an old flame!

[a06z08mama]

Absolutely no judging from me!!! Welcome and Congrats on the rekindling of old flame and new baby!

[amonkeymom]

Welcome Kristen!

[JesusJunkie]

Welcome! No judging but a bit of advice from someone who knows, make sure you realize he will still be financially responsible for those other 4 kids even after yours is born. This can cause a lot of hardship later on.

[Jenn8604]

I dont personally know but ive watched friends experience this when they were baby momma #1 and their kid is negelcted.
remind him to also be there physically for his first 4 as well as financially.

Quoting JesusJunkie:

Welcome! No judging but a bit of advice from someone who knows, make sure you realize he will still be financially responsible for those other 4 kids even after yours is born. This can cause a lot of hardship later on.

[LilTymomma]

Welcome to the group!!! No one will judge, if you ask them not too. 

[paytertotsmomma]

Thanks :) I'm glad y'all are welcoming me

[BabyLuv0688]

welcome....i just don't understand why he would have 4!!!! kids with someone he never loved?

[paytertotsmomma]

First was an accident but they stayed together because they had a kid. She was 22 and he was 16