After 2 years of not speaking or seeing each other I saw my mother yesterday and she saw my newborn and 3 yo for the first time. My mother and I didn't always have the best relationship and it ended altogether 2 years ago when on my sons first birthday she choked me while I had my son in my arms called me an ungrateful bitch, a statistic, and said she would "fuckin' kill me with my son in my arms"...Harsh hun?? Yea
After a year of hating her and a year of avoiding her I finally was truly over the whole situation. I'm not bitter and pissed off anymore. I have a family and no longer let this woman have so much power over me by me hating her. We were in the same room together after 2 years and instead of wanting to slit her throat I smiled and guinunely didn't care about what had happen or her. We were adults and I couldn't be more proud of myself. (my older sister was proud of me too!
My test was I said that I moved on from our incident but anyone can say anything but being in my Aunts house with her and being civil I guniunely WAS! Thanks for listening Ladies :)