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sexual question, enter if you dare (lol)

Posted by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:28 PM
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 i love my SO with all my wee heart. we been together  6 1/2 years. and lord bless his lil soul but i havent had an orgasm since weve been together..i used to try and school him then when we get dwn to it he does NOTHING we went over and in the end i end up laying there waiting for that big moment that NEVER happens.. we all grown and ladies here so tell me does your SO make u have the big O or do you have to handle buisness yourself

Mommy to a Princess & Prince boy n girl

Posted by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:28 PM
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Gealach
by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:30 PM
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Why don't you just stick your hand down there during sex and do it yourself?

kuhns88mylove
by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:31 PM
yeah he always does.even when im not im the mood i always get mine!
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oh_sparks
by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:33 PM
not every single time, but most of the time, and a lot of times more than once.
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PeaceMuch
by Kali on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:34 PM
Yeah. I orgasm easily though and have multiple.
Why not pleasure yourself during sex or a vibrating cock ring. ;)
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ShesALady
by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:36 PM
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Everytime but it's not all on him. I've learned to work my body and hit just the right places to achieve that. Try being on top so you're in full control.
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xTattooedxMommy
by Sara on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:36 PM
Sure does and if he finishes before me he usually takes care of me after unless I let him off the hook. : )
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.bombshell.
by Member on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:37 PM
Yes he does
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Xat
by Bronze Member on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:37 PM

He always makes sure I have one before we start having sex.

Try buying a Hitachi and using it while the two of you are having sex. It is the best toy I have ever bought.

CMS803
by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:40 PM
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My xdh was terrible. I never did with him. The first time I ever did, was with my current dh, after my divorce.
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ddemarco
by on Jul. 31, 2012 at 5:40 PM
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he eats me out beforehand just in case but i usually get an orgasm or get close enough that it felt good enough anyway :)  I can only think of one time where I wasn't satisfied.

Like someone else said, I know how to work it so that I make myself feel good.  It's all about kegals and knowing what feels good to you

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