this is what i want to say but cant say...
everyone please stop telling me how to raise my child... he might be my first child and i might be young but i know what i am doing and hey he is my child not yours to raise.
if i do not want him drinking soda because he is only 6 months old and i dont want him having soda until i feel he is ready to have soda then dont give it to him. dont give it to him while i am feeding him dinner 2 seconds after saying no.
if i am not with you while he is with you please do not give him food/drinks because i am not there to know if he has a reaction to whatever you you gave him because you arent telling me what you gave him. all you have to do is ask if it is alright to give him something.
just because you did this and that with your child and gave your child this and that to eat at this age doesnt mean i want my child to do the same. i am feeding him what i am feeding him i am the one feeding him and i am going to decide what he does and doesnt eat at whichever ages. i am his mother.
my son uses a pacifier yes and i do allow him to use it. just because when you see him he has it doesnt mean that he constantly has it all the time he uses it when he is teething that is what he preferred. he uses it when he is tired. this is his thing and i dont have a problem with it so please STOP 1) telling me that a dentist wouldnt recommend him having it at this age... he is 9 months old leave him alone he has an orthodontic pacy so it wont mess his teeth up 2) STOP taking his pacy out of his mouth and put it up somewhere where i have to find it when we get to your house. 3) stop making these comments about him using it, it is getting very old and extremely annoying
when he is woth you please dont let him play with the things i dont allow him to play with (ie wires and the mail) if he cant have it with me doesnt mean i am going to allow him to do it with someone else.
if i have told you 10 times to not throw his baby food jars away because i want to save them for a project that i am working on then please do not throw them away! he wont be on baby food much longer and i would like to have the fucking jars!!!!!
ugh i can go on but i will stop here... i have a vent to get out so i will post it in a bit... sorry its so long...