My friends' baby shower is coming up, and I RSVP'd no.
For those that remember, I have a crazy ex. He was the best man in my (same) friends' wedding- and had the nerve to talk to us (and hug me) in front of the groom... Knowing I wouldn't start drama at a wedding.
Well- their bbq style baby shower is coed.... I honestly don't want to see/ talk to/ be around my ex EVERRRrrr so I said no...
:( but I feel bad.
Ok, more back story needed I guess-
For those who don't know, he's a very long story short.
Nice guy. Started dating. Took my v-card.
Got controlling, started playing on my insecurities, and eventually got very emotionally/ psychologically abusive. He grabbed me once. I was afraid of it turning to physical abuse.
When I left him, I had to hide for months. I moved, I changed my number, and blocked him on every social site. He used his friends and family to get to me. The threats and harassment didn't stop until 2 years later- about a week or two before my wedding.
Its more than just an ex I'd rather not run into.
on Aug. 28, 2012 at 1:28 PM