Hubby and I just had our second baby (6week old dd) and my husband recently expressed his concerns with new expenses and he thinks I should "maybe get a part time job" don't get me wrong I have no issues with working and I have 2 college degrees and im also a freelance photographer which isnt great money unless i had alot of business but the idea of putting my baby in daycare makes me sick.... I don't want her to "just be another diaper to change" our son went to daycare for a month in his whole life and ended up in the hospital from cold after cold and ended up with a bad infection. I don't want to miss out on her growing. My second issue with daycare is the price it costs more then a mortgage payment to have your baby in daycare full time!! I have 5 classes left for my BA in business so thats 2 nights a week I'm already away from my babies and I'm nursing I don't want to not be able to pump enough and have to give her formula :-( I don't want to seem like a bum I'm not and I don't think my husband should have the burden of working his butt off while I take care of the house I just don't want someone else to spend time with my baby. No one will love my baby like me :-( I am not bashing working moms in any way!!