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my poor baby thinks the lunch lady hates him:( UPDATE

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So last night i emailed the principle and she responded that same night. I couldn't call because by the time he got home, everyone was gone. She was very apologetic and said that was absolutely unacceptable and not how she wants him to remember his first day of school, and that she would talk to juan in the am and talk to the lunch ladies and remind them of the age group and as far as grabbing him she said the lady in question would be delt with accordingly. I was not the only mom who called about this lady, she apparently yelled at quite a few kids. I did not tell her i was bringing him to school this morning. when i showed up she and him took a walk down to the cafeteria and he pointed the lady out (in private) to her, she did this because juan did not know what her name was and both ladies who were monitors had brown hair so that didn't help her. I told her i appreciate her handling it but if i ever get a report that ANYBODY in that school touches a hair on his head i would be in and will become a nightmare for them to deal with. (in nicer words) i also told her im not comfortable with how upset he was and how it was a fight to get him to go this morning, so i would be popping in throughout the next few weeks to make sure things stay on track and she had no issue with this. She did not say what would be done to this woman but when i asked juan how lunch went today, he said good the lady who was mean to him was not in the cafeteria and the lady who was, was very nice and helped him open his thermos and read him my note lol. this made his day.

he came home much happier today. I am pleased with how it was handled and how open and honest she was

 

 

 

Today was my sons first day of kindergarden. I packed his lunch because i knew he wouldnt eat what they were serving. Today when he got off of the bus he burst into tears, I asked him what was wrong he told me the lunch lady had very bad manors and was mean. i asked what was said, as i couldnt figure out the issue since he packed. here she made him throw out the heart shape note i left him, and grabbed his arm. my kid is not one to misbehave and he does have very good manors. he told me he likes his teachers but not lunch time and he doesnt want to go to lunch tomorrow. i dont know why he was grabbed by the arm but im not ok with it. if he needed corrected it should have been handled different. and i asked him if he spilt food on his note he said no, he asked her what it said and thats when she got mad, all as it said was We love you have a great day. i told him it wasnt a big deal and id write hima new one, but something else had to happen for him to be this upset

anybody ever have an expereince like this?

by on Aug. 29, 2012 at 7:15 PM
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nebcutie
by Bronze Member on Aug. 30, 2012 at 9:05 AM
Update today, i want to know what her problem is!
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TiffanyRose06
by on Aug. 30, 2012 at 10:36 AM

Poor little guy :( You don't ruin a child's first day of school like that. Bump for updates.

Paparazzi.Mama
by on Aug. 30, 2012 at 10:42 AM
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THERE. YOU'RE.

Quoting MamaPeanut:

MANNERS.



Why are you not up their finding out why your child was assaulted by some ignorant cafeteria hag?!



Youre his mother, stand up for him.
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mama2my2boys
by on Aug. 30, 2012 at 11:28 AM
they said if they did that then there would be too many parents in there and they need the room for the kids....i think its a bunch of bs!....yea cuz all the parents will want to go to lunch with there kids...whatever!


Quoting moosesmom:

WHAT?? Who does that?! Did they say why?



Quoting mama2my2boys:

at my sons school we cant go in the cafeteria! i was in shock when they told me no parent is allowed in there!






Quoting moosesmom:

Go to the school but not for the reason of telling on the lunch lady. Go to the school tomorrow, check in at the front desk and tell them you would like to eat lunch with your son. Go to the cafeteria and WATCH from afar. Don't let your son or the lunch lady see you. See how she interacts with him and go from there. If you DON'T see it BUT it happens again in the future then go to the school and ask to speak to the principal.



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moosesmom
by Silver Member on Aug. 30, 2012 at 11:35 AM
Seriously -_-

Like you said, each parent will not be there at one time. I'm not buying it.


Quoting mama2my2boys:

they said if they did that then there would be too many parents in there and they need the room for the kids....i think its a bunch of bs!....yea cuz all the parents will want to go to lunch with there kids...whatever!




Quoting moosesmom:

WHAT?? Who does that?! Did they say why?





Quoting mama2my2boys:

at my sons school we cant go in the cafeteria! i was in shock when they told me no parent is allowed in there!








Quoting moosesmom:

Go to the school but not for the reason of telling on the lunch lady. Go to the school tomorrow, check in at the front desk and tell them you would like to eat lunch with your son. Go to the cafeteria and WATCH from afar. Don't let your son or the lunch lady see you. See how she interacts with him and go from there. If you DON'T see it BUT it happens again in the future then go to the school and ask to speak to the principal.



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mama2my2boys
by on Aug. 30, 2012 at 1:52 PM
yea idk why i mean my mom and dad both work for different schools in the same town as i live in and parents can go to lunch....i dont like my sons school exp the office staff! when my son was crying about the sub and went to the office to call home (hubby went and got him from school) and the office lady said "its pretty pathetic how he is acting"....hubby told me i fliped my lid called the school wanting to speak to the principal "she was busy" so i went down there wrote a note asked for a stapler and stapled it and the office staff said she would put it in her box...well guess what the principal never got the note!


Quoting moosesmom:

Seriously -_-



Like you said, each parent will not be there at one time. I'm not buying it.




Quoting mama2my2boys:

they said if they did that then there would be too many parents in there and they need the room for the kids....i think its a bunch of bs!....yea cuz all the parents will want to go to lunch with there kids...whatever!






Quoting moosesmom:

WHAT?? Who does that?! Did they say why?







Quoting mama2my2boys:

at my sons school we cant go in the cafeteria! i was in shock when they told me no parent is allowed in there!










Quoting moosesmom:

Go to the school but not for the reason of telling on the lunch lady. Go to the school tomorrow, check in at the front desk and tell them you would like to eat lunch with your son. Go to the cafeteria and WATCH from afar. Don't let your son or the lunch lady see you. See how she interacts with him and go from there. If you DON'T see it BUT it happens again in the future then go to the school and ask to speak to the principal.




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MamaPeanut
by Kristy on Aug. 30, 2012 at 2:29 PM
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Good catch! Thank you.

Quoting Paparazzi.Mama:

THERE. YOU'RE.



Quoting MamaPeanut:

MANNERS.





Why are you not up their finding out why your child was assaulted by some ignorant cafeteria hag?!





Youre his mother, stand up for him.
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sreichelt26
by on Aug. 30, 2012 at 3:52 PM

Update please! Your poor son :(

I loved the lunch ladies when I was in school. One always let my friends and I have extra peaches.

moosesmom
by Silver Member on Aug. 30, 2012 at 4:02 PM
Wow! I don't like this situation. They don't want you guys at the school and they put down a child by calling his behavior "pathetic"? Your husband should went back up there.

I wish you could get him into another school. Has your son said anything else?


Quoting mama2my2boys:

yea idk why i mean my mom and dad both work for different schools in the same town as i live in and parents can go to lunch....i dont like my sons school exp the office staff! when my son was crying about the sub and went to the office to call home (hubby went and got him from school) and the office lady said "its pretty pathetic how he is acting"....hubby told me i fliped my lid called the school wanting to speak to the principal "she was busy" so i went down there wrote a note asked for a stapler and stapled it and the office staff said she would put it in her box...well guess what the principal never got the note!




Quoting moosesmom:

Seriously -_-





Like you said, each parent will not be there at one time. I'm not buying it.






Quoting mama2my2boys:

they said if they did that then there would be too many parents in there and they need the room for the kids....i think its a bunch of bs!....yea cuz all the parents will want to go to lunch with there kids...whatever!








Quoting moosesmom:

WHAT?? Who does that?! Did they say why?









Quoting mama2my2boys:

at my sons school we cant go in the cafeteria! i was in shock when they told me no parent is allowed in there!












Quoting moosesmom:

Go to the school but not for the reason of telling on the lunch lady. Go to the school tomorrow, check in at the front desk and tell them you would like to eat lunch with your son. Go to the cafeteria and WATCH from afar. Don't let your son or the lunch lady see you. See how she interacts with him and go from there. If you DON'T see it BUT it happens again in the future then go to the school and ask to speak to the principal.




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TiffanyRose06
by on Aug. 30, 2012 at 4:13 PM

Update!

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