A quick background to what happened between me and my best friend.
When I delivered my son, she was the first person to see him. While she was there with us, she overheard me telling Michael we need to eventually move outta Todd's mom's place. I didn't really trust Todd around little man and Michael agreed.
Well she only heard the first part where I said we eventually will move. After that she got pissed and left soon after. I was still loopy from the c section to not really notice anything.
In the past month I finally confronted her as to why she was acting extremely distant and hateful with me. She claimed she never received any of my texts over the 7 months since havin my little man nor the two face book messages asking her when she wanted to get together so we could talk more about her being his god mom.
We talked about it and she was mad about me saying we're eventually moving. I forgave her and I mentioned Michael and I have talked about marriage. She was excited for me.
she messaged me last night and asked if she was still going to be my maid of honor like we always promised. I politely said no because she told me last week she doubted she could even go to our wedding on Halloween because she has college and work.
She turned around and said that it was all Michael's fault that she isn't the maid of honor.
She's not really the person I have known for 13 years now. Everyone except for Michael says it'd be rude of me to uninvite her even though I feel she'd cause problems on our big day.
What do you guys think?
When I delivered my son, she was the first person to see him. While she was there with us, she overheard me telling Michael we need to eventually move outta Todd's mom's place. I didn't really trust Todd around little man and Michael agreed.
Well she only heard the first part where I said we eventually will move. After that she got pissed and left soon after. I was still loopy from the c section to not really notice anything.
In the past month I finally confronted her as to why she was acting extremely distant and hateful with me. She claimed she never received any of my texts over the 7 months since havin my little man nor the two face book messages asking her when she wanted to get together so we could talk more about her being his god mom.
We talked about it and she was mad about me saying we're eventually moving. I forgave her and I mentioned Michael and I have talked about marriage. She was excited for me.
she messaged me last night and asked if she was still going to be my maid of honor like we always promised. I politely said no because she told me last week she doubted she could even go to our wedding on Halloween because she has college and work.
She turned around and said that it was all Michael's fault that she isn't the maid of honor.
She's not really the person I have known for 13 years now. Everyone except for Michael says it'd be rude of me to uninvite her even though I feel she'd cause problems on our big day.
What do you guys think?
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:05 AM
U don't need the drama on ur wedding day. If she's gonna be an immature person don't have her come.
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:07 AM
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That's how we both feel.
I feel bad though because she's acting jealous of me :(
I feel bad though because she's acting jealous of me :(
Quoting eringlading:
U don't need the drama on ur wedding day. If she's gonna be an immature person don't have her come.
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:07 AM
She's sounds like a drama queen. You're better off just not inviting her at all, honestly.
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:10 AM
What's worse is she never acted like this until I had Dante >.<
I've told her since she messaged that as much as she is like family to me, I don't want to deal with it on the big day. I just feel bad that she is resorting to acting like she's 5 instead of 23. ._.
I've told her since she messaged that as much as she is like family to me, I don't want to deal with it on the big day. I just feel bad that she is resorting to acting like she's 5 instead of 23. ._.
Quoting Gastromama2007:
She's sounds like a drama queen. You're better off just not inviting her at all, honestly.
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:12 AM
From how she's acting yeah. :( I don't mind not having a maid of honor but I don't want her to her panties in a bunch about it and feel I'm being mean no reason. Ugh!
Quoting Lovin_mybaby5:she doesn't seem to on the same level as you.
She seems very CONVEINANT like im your friend now but not later
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:13 AM
Unfortunetly that's when some ppls true colors show. My sil ex bff did that to her at her wedding. Told her straight up how jealous she was of her. Totally inappropriate.
Quoting raye-chan:
What's worse is she never acted like this until I had Dante >.<
I've told her since she messaged that as much as she is like family to me, I don't want to deal with it on the big day. I just feel bad that she is resorting to acting like she's 5 instead of 23. ._.
Quoting Gastromama2007:
She's sounds like a drama queen. You're better off just not inviting her at all, honestly.
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:16 AM
Yeah >.<
I wish she wasn't jealous of me though. She always tells me there's guess she wants to date and do more with but she says she refuses to until she's out of school.
>.< she knows I hate hurting others in any way shape or form. I feel bad but like Michael keeps saying, she'll be hell on our day and he doesn't want her there if she's acting like this now
I wish she wasn't jealous of me though. She always tells me there's guess she wants to date and do more with but she says she refuses to until she's out of school.
>.< she knows I hate hurting others in any way shape or form. I feel bad but like Michael keeps saying, she'll be hell on our day and he doesn't want her there if she's acting like this now
Quoting eringlading:
Unfortunetly that's when some ppls true colors show. My sil ex bff did that to her at her wedding. Told her straight up how jealous she was of her. Totally inappropriate.
Quoting raye-chan:
What's worse is she never acted like this until I had Dante >.<
I've told her since she messaged that as much as she is like family to me, I don't want to deal with it on the big day. I just feel bad that she is resorting to acting like she's 5 instead of 23. ._.
Quoting Gastromama2007:
She's sounds like a drama queen. You're better off just not inviting her at all, honestly.
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:16 AM
I wouldn't involve her in my life.. Too much drama. My best friend in HS and I lost touch because of constant drama.. She thrived off of it. I just couldn't deal with it. I grew up faster than she did.
Honestly, I only have 1 friend that's my age. The rest are older lol
Honestly, I only have 1 friend that's my age. The rest are older lol
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on Sep. 16, 2012 at 10:19 AM
Lol starting to sound like me. X3 I'm not much of a people person so every one of my old friends who don't have kids I've grown away from so I'm a loner 99% of the time now lol
Quoting xomrs.chase:
I wouldn't involve her in my life.. Too much drama. My best friend in HS and I lost touch because of constant drama.. She thrived off of it. I just couldn't deal with it. I grew up faster than she did.
Honestly, I only have 1 friend that's my age. The rest are older lol
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How far is too far???
Boyfriend....eh
- raye-chan
on Sep. 16, 2012 at 9:55 AM