I called my mom (stepmother but was mainly mom due to BM hasn't been around until the last 3 years and I am 26). I told her I missed her and was wondering if we could make plans to come over and hang out with me for a couple of hours some time in the near future. Her reply was I am busy all the time. I'm sorry. She is constantly going to my stepsister's house which is 4 hours away and spends days there. She also visits my other sister about 4-5 times a week. She even finds time to go to NC to visit my other sister at least twice a month.
I told her I understood and maybe one day we could work something out. But really my feelings were really hurt. I understand I am an adult now and I understand she has her own life and things to do...but seriously I was saying it had to be any time immediately or even in the next couple of weeks!!