I recently messaged a friend saying and I quote "miss you!" to a friend whom I used to be close with. We last spoke in April. We dated very briefly, but it was never serious because it was awkward when we tried to go that way because we were such good friends. and we were always friends more than anything. He messaged me back saying,im not sure if you know im n a relationship, but out of respect for my relationship and yours, maybe we should quit with the miss yous. Im like wait what? I wasnt saying it THAT WAY first of all, secondly, that was four years ago buddy! Im saying miss you to a FRIEND not in a romantic way. I believed in him and supported him and even helped promote his clothing label when it was all just an idea. Now hes doing great and I just wanted an update from my friend. And i kept in touch with him after I got married and he would ask how I was doing when he wasnt ina relationship. So it was cool for you to ask how I was doing this entire time you werent in a relationship and Ive been married, but now I cant do the same AS A FRIEND.
How do I respond?
on Oct. 5, 2012 at 12:40 AM