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So there's this girl me and dh went to HS with. Well last yr he added her to fb. Instantly she started with the leave ur wife and kids for me BS and then would say she was pregnant, knew the gender @ 8weeks, blah blah then always "lost it"... she also became stalker-ish with me and him...well after that non sense he deleted her.

Well I just got a message from a mutal friend of mine, dhs and this other girls... my friend said she got invited to a babyshower for the other girl this winter but she's NOT pregnant its for her BABY DOLL and this girl is like 24yrs old. Lives @ home no job. She buys the doll real diapers, made it a fb, buys formula, bottles, real clothes ect...

At her age I don't see hoe this behavior is ok at all. Or why her parents encourage it. She's not mentally disabled or anything. My friend doesn't really know how to react and asked my advise but I'm unsure myself.
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by on Oct. 7, 2012 at 4:39 PM
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VictoriousTory
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 9:26 AM
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There was an American Dad where this chick Steve was trying to hook up with had a thing like that with her doll.... said his friend knocked her up... and she took her to an abortion clinic... lol... its weird but funny at the same time. 

babylove041810
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:42 AM

Oh. Well than I would suggest a restaining order. Than she legally can't contact you either and if she does all you have to do is report it.

Quoting lilmama8408:

She's never been pregnant. She claims every month that she's about 8weeks along. None of her stories add up. She doesn't have a guy. She doesn't leave her house without her parents bc no job no car. From what. My friend knows this girl hasn't had sex since HS ... in HS she took all normal classes.
I think its an attention thing from being jealous. A lot of girls/guys from our HS have long term relationships, married, kids, ect.


Quoting babylove041810:

Maybe she lost a baby and went a little crazy so she uses the baby doll to cope. It would explain why she told your DH she was pregnant and "lost" it and knew the gender and everything. It's happened before. A lot of people who are already relatively unstable lose it completely when something tragic happens.


MusicMuse1991
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:49 AM

whoa

crabtreemommy
by on Oct. 8, 2012 at 10:52 AM

I think the girl needs help. Sounds like she needs mental help and someone needs to get it for her. The sooner, the better! 

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