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Question: Did you have a planned or surprise baby (or babies)?




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Was you baby (or babies) planned or were they pleasant surprises?

How old were you and your DH/ SO with them?

by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 11:40 AM
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by Gold Member on Oct. 10, 2012 at 12:43 PM

DD was planned. We started TTC shortly after we got married and miscarried twice, she was born when we were 22, a few months after our 2nd wedding anniversary.

DS was half planned. Never trust a man with baby fever to pull out, especially not after a few glasses of wine (I was between birth controls at the time...switching to the Nuva Ring from the pill)! We were 27 when he was born.

by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 12:46 PM
We are "whenever it happens" kind of people. We have one so far. I was 25 when I had Lani Jason was 29.
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by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 2:13 PM

Planned surprise here too, we said lets do this time for a baby! i tested a few weeks later and I was pregnant. We were like holy crap, that was easier than we thought it would be! I was 28 when I had him and hubby was 31

by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 2:17 PM
I was 23, and dh 28 when we married. After our wedding night we decided to stop using bc and figured we'd get pregnant within the year. I didnt have a period the next month, lol, so planned but not tried for. With #2 we were actively ttc
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by Kristy on Oct. 10, 2012 at 4:52 PM
One of each.

1st was a surprise and the second was planned.
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by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 4:53 PM
DS was a surprise! :) I found out I was pregnant when I was 22 (I'm 23 now) and SO was 29( he is 30 now).
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by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 6:36 PM

 Both were surprises, though my daughter was more of a surprise than my son. They have different fathers. We were both 18yo when my son was born; I was 23yo and he was 40yo when my daughter was born.

by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 6:37 PM
Planned! 24/29
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by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 6:39 PM
Both dd was a surprise and ds was a mix. We hadn't officially started trying and my pre trying appointment ended up being my first prenatal appointment
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by on Oct. 10, 2012 at 6:45 PM

My first I was 18 when I got pregnant and 19 when I had him....

last one I was 29 and SO is/was 39

this one I will be 30 and SO will be 40 

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