I know that for most people this is really personal, so please dont comment if you dont wish to be a part of it. This is information that would be really helpful to me, I am not looking for negative responses and what nots..
SO (we'll be married November 25, 2012) and I keep going back and forth about my staying home.. I have about 10 classes left to complete my bachelor's degree and since I need three more years of schooling besides that he wants me to quit my job, I have kind of already agreed to quit after the holidays, but I am soo scared. Financially I dont know that we would make it, he says we would have no problem, and reflecting on his paycheck we SHOULD have no problem.. I amaware that it is going ot be a scarifice and I need to finish my bachelor's to move on to the next stage of my life.. but how do ya'll do it? I have a 5 yo and he is in Kindergarten so I would have all day to go to classes, that is fine, I will have more time to cook, clean and do laundry.. However Iwill probably have to give up things like going to the salon every week, and going clothes shopping every week, eating out at nice restaurants and what not.. How do I mentally prepare for that?
Thanks for the input ladies!