Make it work with a family of 4? Just found out I was pregnant with our second and I'm in the "what in the world did I do" phase. I keep hearing that 2 is the toughest number of children, but are that doesn't help make the transition easier. We live at least an hour away from any family so we're really on our own. I'm 21, my hubby is 27 and our son is just 2. We're a young family and I'm a worrier (I worry about far too many things that are mostly out of my control). Is there anything that made the transition easier for you all and your oldest child?