i am the only one who knows my dad is unfaithful to my mom. i need someone to talk to =(
this might be a little long so im sorry in advance.
ok so ill start from the beggining . my parents have been married for 23 years and they have two kids . me and my sister. i have always felt like my dad wasnt faithful . i cant explain it. well a year ago i got suspicous and went thru my dads txt messages and saw he had some txts from a women he bowls with . asking what she wanted for christmas and she said some alone time with my favorite elf...that didnt sit well with me . and they always say xoxo to eachother . but i never confronted him or said anything . i didnt want my family to be broken.
ok fast forward a year later . my dad had a stroke last month , he is recovering so well ,he will make a full recovery . so today my dad was on the phone with a women . i was listing to the convo. well i thought it was going to be the women he bowled with but to my suprise it was a diffrent women! she had a new york accent and my dad is from newyork ,i realized it was his old girlfriend that he dated before my mom .im shocked this could mean hes been unfaithful there entire marrage.
she was saying i love you ,i wish i could lay next to you.my dad said peple are home so lets just have a normal convo .and she said iok i wouldnt want to get you in trouble.
ok ive written to much .if you read it all thankyou. im at such a loss. my mom does everything for my ad and especally now that he is recovering from his stroke he needs her more than ever but im the only one who knows all of this! im so sad , i dont want my mom to be heartbroken but i dont think she deserves to be cheated on.
IF ANYONE HAS CAUGHT THERE PARENT CHEATING OR HAS BEEN THRU A SIMALAR SITUATION PLEASE ID LOVE YOUR OPINION . IDK WHAT TO DO I DONT WANT TO BREAK UP MY FAMILY BUT I HATE LIVING WITH THIS SECRET . ITS MAKING ME SAD ALOT.
again thanks for reading