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Posted by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:27 PM
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we went to court yesterday at 9am she did not show up until 30 min into the hearing(it took about 75min) the judge chewed her out good telling her that  she is not fit to be a mother and has shown poor judgement skills with not only her care but also with her interest in the boys. the judge after reviewing the evidence from CPS,THE COPS, NEIGHBORS, FAMILY AND FRIENDS tpr'd her rights and awarded me full and permanent custody. so in short i and my husband in the eyes of the state of new york am their legal parents.

their names have also been changed

Sammy will now be known as : David Jacob

justice will now be known as: Adrian Jiavani

look for the post that says " babysitting job turning into temp/perm custody"

THE ORIG POST

Just to clear up some apparent confusion the only part of their name that is actually changed is the first. i just added their middle names so that ya'll could see

by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:27 PM
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ShellGardner
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:28 PM
What did I miss?
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by Bronze Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:28 PM
How old are they?
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Mommy_Jenx3
by Silver Member on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:30 PM
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I missed the backstory. How old are the kids. Who are they? And why did you change their names?

Gastromama2007
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:46 PM
Who's kids?
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AMR320
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:47 PM



Quoting Mommy_Jenx3:

I missed the backstory. How old are the kids. Who are they? And why did you change their names?


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boshs1andonly
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:49 PM
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If she's a bad mother, that's great that you get custody. but why are you changing their names? Just out of curiosity, if they are older wouldn't they be wondering why they suddenly use a different name?

headingsouth13
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 2:59 PM

they are 1yr and 3yr and as far as changing their names it is to distance them from their birth mother and family(a whole different post)

Quoting boshs1andonly:

If she's a bad mother, that's great that you get custody. but why are you changing their names? Just out of curiosity, if they are older wouldn't they be wondering why they suddenly use a different name?


ambermarie2006
by Amber on Nov. 21, 2012 at 3:11 PM
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I think its way over the top to rename them, but good luck
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Jess8685
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 5:11 PM
I kinda agree, I know where your coming from bc my mom adopted 2 kids and made a slight change to their names but the only part that changed was the middle names.. Good luck and congrats! it's your choice but I would keep some part of their name that's familiar to them kwim
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busymom64064
by on Nov. 21, 2012 at 5:14 PM
How long have you had them?


Quoting headingsouth13:

we
went to court yesterday at 9am she did not show up until 30 min into the
hearing(it took about 75min) the judge chewed her out good telling her
that  she is not fit to be a mother and has shown poor judgement skills
with not only her care but also with her interest in the boys. the judge
after reviewing the evidence from CPS,THE COPS, NEIGHBORS, FAMILY AND
FRIENDS tpr'd her rights and awarded me full and permanent custody. so
in short i and my husband in the eyes of the state of new york am their
legal parents.

their names have also been changed

Sammy will now be known as : David Jacob

justice will now be known as: Adrian Jiavani

look for the post that says " babysitting job turning into temp/perm custody"


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