I am 21 years old and I am a mother of one son! He is the greatest gift I have ever been given! The sweetest little love of my life! He is 14 months old and a little rascal. No he was not planned I was only 19 when I got pregnant and his father and I only knew eachother for 6 months when I got pregnant! Saying that it was a rough road but we are very much in love and just recently got engaged and are planning on a wedding in the near future! :) Being a young mom has been hard and I've dealt with a lot of pain and depression because I felt like my life was over and I never had any time to do the things I used to love to do! It wasn't until recently that I realized that my life is not over, since I lost all my friends when I got pregnant, but there are better days ahead and I am now an adult and can do more mature things than just wanting to party all the time! I wouldn't trade my son for anything! I absolutely love love love being a mom! He is the best part of my day my pride and joy! :)
So I had some questions.... Here lately I have been wanting another baby! I love being a mom and I miss the days when my son really let me care and nurture him... the days when he would just lay in my arms and cuddle with me! Now he never sits still and runs around like a little monster! lol The issue I have is that my fiance DOES NOT want another one... This hurts me so bad because my entire life I've wanted at least 3 kids. The other thing is that I really want a little girl! I've tried to compromise with him and said that we try once more and that's it! I will get my tubes tied and we will never have to have this conversation again... That is not good enough for him! I'm unsure of how to go about the conversation in a positive way to even just have him think about it! Not necessarily say yes lets do it but even just an "OK baby I will think about it!" So i wanted to know what you ladies thought and you're experience with this!