This is why I say it. For 5.5 years I was married to a guy thar would only me to go out with my girlfriends for at most 2 hours. 7-9, 8-10, 9-11(that time frame was pushing it). Why? Because he never wanted to stay hone with the kids. Even when I got a second shift job working 3:30-12 he would have his mom or sister watch them so he could go do whatever.
Yes yes yes. Some of you say you should respect him. But honestly how could I respect a "man" that wouldn't respect me. He wasn't working late hours. Late nights every night consisted of drinking til whenever he decided to come home.
I only went once a year. My birthday. Me and my bestie. The other time I went out it was with his sister and sil. And their friends.......
So point being. Last night was my first girls night out in forever. I was staying at my boyfriend's last night and I told him I would be home about 9. Then when I texted him later. I said I will be about another hour or so. His response? "Take your time have fun baby". He does his guy stuff. So I think he was happy to see that I was taking time to enjoy me time with the girls.
Here's how I know that what happened in my marriage was bad. I was getting ready last night and DD looked at me and said "I hope Mike don't get mad that you are having supper with Katrina" I tried to explain it the best I could to my 6.5 year old. I don't control him. He doesn't control me. I don't need his permission to go out and do things. ***I do with the ex. Even to the grocery store***
*****YES I WAS CHEATING ON MY EX WITH MY NOW BOYFRIEND! OK? GET IT? GOOD.... THE WHOLE FUCKING POINT IS THAT HE WAS CONTROLLING WAY WAY BEFORE I EVER EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT CHEATING. GOD. YOU BITCHES DONT FUCKING READ EVERY THING DO YOU?????
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