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finally no curfew!

Posted by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 10:27 AM
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Yes it may seem odd that age 25 I am saying I finally don't have a curfew.



This is why I say it. For 5.5 years I was married to a guy thar would only me to go out with my girlfriends for at most 2 hours. 7-9, 8-10, 9-11(that time frame was pushing it). Why? Because he never wanted to stay hone with the kids. Even when I got a second shift job working 3:30-12 he would have his mom or sister watch them so he could go do whatever.



Yes yes yes. Some of you say you should respect him. But honestly how could I respect a "man" that wouldn't respect me. He wasn't working late hours. Late nights every night consisted of drinking til whenever he decided to come home.



I only went once a year. My birthday. Me and my bestie. The other time I went out it was with his sister and sil. And their friends.......



So point being. Last night was my first girls night out in forever. I was staying at my boyfriend's last night and I told him I would be home about 9. Then when I texted him later. I said I will be about another hour or so. His response? "Take your time have fun baby". He does his guy stuff. So I think he was happy to see that I was taking time to enjoy me time with the girls.



Here's how I know that what happened in my marriage was bad. I was getting ready last night and DD looked at me and said "I hope Mike don't get mad that you are having supper with Katrina" I tried to explain it the best I could to my 6.5 year old. I don't control him. He doesn't control me. I don't need his permission to go out and do things. ***I do with the ex. Even to the grocery store***



*****YES I WAS CHEATING ON MY EX WITH MY NOW BOYFRIEND! OK? GET IT? GOOD.... THE WHOLE FUCKING POINT IS THAT HE WAS CONTROLLING WAY WAY BEFORE I EVER EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT CHEATING. GOD. YOU BITCHES DONT FUCKING READ EVERY THING DO YOU?????
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Kayla060812
by on Jan. 5, 2013 at 10:31 AM
This made me smile. Good for you for getting out.. i mean that in 2 ways. Going out and getting away from a major douche
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firespurity
by Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 10:32 AM

Yay. :)

a06z08mama
by Bronze Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 10:38 AM
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It took a while for me to finally leave. But it was then or never. I hit rock bottom. But I am coming back up. Finding myself. Knowing who I am. The mom I want to be. All 3 of us are better away from their ass of a dad. Even tho they still see him almost every day. But I don't have to! Lol


Quoting Kayla060812:

This made me smile. Good for you for getting out.. i mean that in 2 ways. Going out and getting away from a major douche

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OBImomma
by Ruby Member on Jan. 5, 2013 at 10:48 AM
Yay!!
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mangie22
by Bronze Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:03 AM
Good for you for getting out of that relationship!
sissy852
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:26 AM
good for you. For leaving and going out
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TexasWife
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:27 AM

Sounds like this guy will show your dd what a man really should be like. :) YAY!

Paperfishies
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:29 AM
How long have you all been dating?
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MomRocs1102
by on Jan. 6, 2013 at 12:34 AM

The best part of this story is at the end when you call your husband your EX!  So happy you got out of that, I have been there in a relationship with a controlling man who has insecurities and a cheater that feels you will do the same.  Dh and I have curfews, but we agreed on it and it keeps down confusion 3am we should be home.  I am so very happy for you, now your children get to see mommy happy.

a06z08mama
by Bronze Member on Jan. 6, 2013 at 9:32 AM
Technically two years today. But ex and I finally split in February last year.


Quoting Paperfishies:

How long have you all been dating?

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