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You can use FB mobile, but you can't make a phone call?! (Swearing, vent)

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So, after still no returned calls or texts from EW (ex wife, It's the NICEST thing I think  to call her. Mom is overkill) I hop on FB to see if she's at least alive there. (She has DH and I blocked, so I have to log into my business page to be able to see her posts that she makes public) (She has us blocked because we used FB posts about her being drunk, leaving the kids alone, catching the kids watching porn, etc, against her in court and she was furious when she lost her battle against us then, so now she won't allow us, or any of our family or friends on her FB page) (The courts are aware that she is violating orders, but said it has to go on for X amount of visits, and then DH can file to set up a hearing, but that likely won't be set until March or April, WTFH?!) Anywho, so I check out her page, and lo and behold, not only is she updating her cover photos, profile pics, and relationship status (it now says single, but her most recent hubby still has his set to married,,, hmmm) every single day, numerous times a day, can carry on conversations with everyone she knows, but yet she STILL WON'T TEXT OR CALL US. Wow...


As I'm scrolling through, I see this post about MY MIL. It's the fakest, most bullshit line of drivel I have ever read in my life. (Aside from most of her bullshit). 1. My MIL does not like her at all. She thinks she is a horrible excuse for a mother, a pathological liar, and doesn't deserve to have her children, and is now irritated that she posted this. 2. My husband buried that dog, MIL's oldest daughter has lived with her off and on every year, and we live no more than 3 miles from MIL's house. She is not some lonely old woman depending on her damn dog for her only companionship. 3. MIL actually spent more time advising EW's 2nd ex hubby about how to force her to be an adult and take care of their kids when she was running around partying behind his back and leaving the kids in filth all day while he was at work. 4. It all just irks me to no end that she can make some woe is me post about MY MIL, (She's been my MIL for almost 7 years, it's not as if they recently split up, lol) and still not be bothered to contact the woman's SON so that he can see his daughter. Vent Over. Here's the FB post. I have to laugh at the run on sentences, etc. Idiot.

UPDATE 1: Jake, her 2nd ExDH JUST sent me a text, saying: She hasn't been to school in months.

WHAT THE FUCK?! And of course, if she isn't enrolled in a school district, at all, then she isn't going to get busted for truancy. OMFG. I'm so furious. She's supposedly living in Holland, which is like 25 minutes away from here, and I am going to call the school district there to see what I can find out tomorrow. Or have DH do it. And I'm half tempted to call Slutface's grandmother to find out what the ever living SHIT is going on here. I am seriously ready to bang heads together.

Here's FB post.

I know she isn't on facebook but a really really good friend someone I have looked to as a mother, called for advice about life and kids nearly every day has lost her best friend. Her dog Mini went to Heaven on Sunday and she is taking it so hard. Since her kids moved out her pets are her world and Mini was always number one always on her lap sleeping on her in her bed right next to her every night she comforted her thru a divorce and other losses in her life and due to a reaction to a shot she has passed. I didn't have the words to tell her just how sorry I am for such a loss as hers I can't imagine how hard it is for her. I am asking for prayers that she is able to cope and get thru this extremely hard and sad time in her life and find comfort that Mini is no longer in pain. RIP Mini



by on Jan. 7, 2013 at 5:30 PM
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StarryRain
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:47 AM


Quoting beaularson91:

Hhhmmmm seems like you didnt get the support you were looking for from the SMs so posted somewhere where you would.... I'm far from saying anything positive about the BM but come on....this sounds like your just looking for anything to make fun of her..... People change the spelling of names all the time its not so uncommon or difficult to pronounce...your grasping here...


Quoting StarryRain:

Yup. In July.

She named her.... BAH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Saphire (yes, one p) Jorndynne. Um.. How do you pronounce that middle name, and why spell Sapphire wrong??

When she had her, we didn't talk to SD for over a month. She refused to let her call us.




Quoting Courtney610:

Did she have her baby? I don't remember an update on that.


beaularson91
by Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:49 AM
I didnt say it was grasping at straws for posting in more than one group, i said making fun of BM for the way she spelt the new baby's name was grasping. People change the spellings of names all the time its not that uncommon but she made it out to be sssssuucchh a difficult name.


Quoting ilovecandy:

uh.....making the same post in other groups is pulling for straws? i make the same post in multiple groups, even groups im not well known in along with ones i am known in. i dont see the issue here

Quoting beaularson91:

Hhhmmmm seems like you didnt get the support you were looking for from the SMs so posted somewhere where you would.... I'm far from saying anything positive about the BM but come on....this sounds like your just looking for anything to make fun of her..... People change the spelling of names all the time its not so uncommon or difficult to pronounce...your grasping here...





Quoting StarryRain:

Yup. In July.


She named her.... BAH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Saphire (yes, one p) Jorndynne. Um.. How do you pronounce that middle name, and why spell Sapphire wrong??


When she had her, we didn't talk to SD for over a month. She refused to let her call us.






Quoting Courtney610:

Did she have her baby? I don't remember an update on that.




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StarryRain
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:52 AM

I wouldn't call it immaturity. I would, however, say that I am more than fed up with the entire damned situation. I SPECIFIED in the OP (both, since they're almost identical) WHYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY I even went to her FB in the first place. Why was this? Because I wanted to make sure there was life and activity in general. And because gathering more evidence against her is for our benefit. Please. Support? Minimally. 98% of the girls now saying something in here saw the replies in SMC. Call it what you will. I posted in here to vent and update those who actually knew the story, because I am a mod in this group still, and like to come to my "home" group, and because I wanted to see how one group that is supposed to be in supposrt of SMs would measure up to a group that is across the board in all ways. We see how THAT went.

Quoting beaularson91:

Lol no im in both groups this was posted in, the title showed up in my recent activities list and seemed like something i had read recently and i was curious. I didnt intentionally follow her to tell her i disaproved. I didnt even give my opinion in the other group, it would have been redundant.

I've read the stories about the shit the BM has done hence why i said i wasnt saying anything positive about her. She gets support from the other group too just not on this post.

All I did was point out that tbis particular comment was her just looking for something to laugh at BM over and it smacked of imiturity.


Quoting Unoriginal.:

She gets support here because we know the whole story and have watched that child be hurt time and time again because of her BM.


And


Hhhmmm seems like you disproved of her so much you had to come to another post in another group after she left to continue with your opinion. That's just childish.

Quoting beaularson91:

Hhhmmmm seems like you didnt get the support you were looking for from the SMs so posted somewhere where you would.... I'm far from saying anything positive about the BM but come on....this sounds like your just looking for anything to make fun of her..... People change the spelling of names all the time its not so uncommon or difficult to pronounce...your grasping here...





Quoting StarryRain:

Yup. In July.


She named her.... BAH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Saphire (yes, one p) Jorndynne. Um.. How do you pronounce that middle name, and why spell Sapphire wrong??


When she had her, we didn't talk to SD for over a month. She refused to let her call us.






Quoting Courtney610:

Did she have her baby? I don't remember an update on that.





MommieSDW
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:55 AM
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Someone needs a spell check. I'm not naming names.
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StarryRain
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:56 AM

People make fun of name spellings all the time. I don't have to grasp for straws when it comes to ammo for making fun of EW. Not at all. I have a whole collection of memes, ecards, etc that say it all so very well, in such a wonderfully sarcastic and hilarious manner. She is the epitome of this:


Quoting beaularson91:

I didnt say it was grasping at straws for posting in more than one group, i said making fun of BM for the way she spelt the new baby's name was grasping. People change the spellings of names all the time its not that uncommon but she made it out to be sssssuucchh a difficult name.


Quoting ilovecandy:

uh.....making the same post in other groups is pulling for straws? i make the same post in multiple groups, even groups im not well known in along with ones i am known in. i dont see the issue here

Quoting beaularson91:

Hhhmmmm seems like you didnt get the support you were looking for from the SMs so posted somewhere where you would.... I'm far from saying anything positive about the BM but come on....this sounds like your just looking for anything to make fun of her..... People change the spelling of names all the time its not so uncommon or difficult to pronounce...your grasping here...





Quoting StarryRain:

Yup. In July.


She named her.... BAH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Saphire (yes, one p) Jorndynne. Um.. How do you pronounce that middle name, and why spell Sapphire wrong??


When she had her, we didn't talk to SD for over a month. She refused to let her call us.






Quoting Courtney610:

Did she have her baby? I don't remember an update on that.





beaularson91
by Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 1:58 AM
Me being a stepmom has nothing to do with her just looking for just anything to get digs in on BM.

I am empathetic, to her SD for having a shitty Mom, but I not going to give my sympathy to someone who intentionally looked BM up knowing full well what she saw would just piss her off, I mean come on, you of all people know what BM is like why does anything she does even surprise you. I just don't see the point of her wasting her time,and energy, on BM's stupid fuckery.


Quoting MommieSDW:

I'm a little shocked that if you're a step mom and you know what Starry Rain has been put through by this woman, you'd be anything less than empathetic.



Quoting beaularson91:

Hhhmmmm seems like you didnt get the support you were looking for from the SMs so posted somewhere where you would.... I'm far from saying anything positive about the BM but come on....this sounds like your just looking for anything to make fun of her..... People change the spelling of names all the time its not so uncommon or difficult to pronounce...your grasping here...






Quoting StarryRain:

Yup. In July.



She named her.... BAH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Saphire (yes, one p) Jorndynne. Um.. How do you pronounce that middle name, and why spell Sapphire wrong??



When she had her, we didn't talk to SD for over a month. She refused to let her call us.








Quoting Courtney610:

Did she have her baby? I don't remember an update on that.


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annismom10
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:10 AM
I am still facepalming about the overall lack of stepmom support you are getting. It's such a hard job i just figured you all would stick together. But this is CM and the mothers in general don't stick together
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beaularson91
by Member on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:11 AM
Oooh what a burn


Quoting MommieSDW:

Someone needs a spell check. I'm not naming names.

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feliciasmith
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:11 AM


Quoting beaularson91:

Hhhmmmm seems like you didnt get the support you were looking for from the SMs so posted somewhere where you would.... I'm far from saying anything positive about the BM but come on....this sounds like your just looking for anything to make fun of her..... People change the spelling of names all the time its not so uncommon or difficult to pronounce...your grasping here...

 

I KNEW I SAW THIS IN THE OTHER GROUP!! lol

MommieSDW
by on Jan. 9, 2013 at 2:13 AM
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She intentionally looked her up and because they haven't heard from her. She's in contempt of the court order, the kid is missing school and Starry was concerned. Then she did this thing people like to call "venting". Just because you should know someone is frustrating doesn't always keep you from being frustrated.

You came in here with your bitch flag flying high for the sole purpose of being rude, which as you said, the other group did its share of, so let her get support from her friends and back off.


Quoting beaularson91:

Me being a stepmom has nothing to do with her just looking for just anything to get digs in on BM.



I am empathetic, to her SD for having a shitty Mom, but I not going to give my sympathy to someone who intentionally looked BM up knowing full well what she saw would just piss her off, I mean come on, you of all people know what BM is like why does anything she does even surprise you. I just don't see the point of her wasting her time,and energy, on BM's stupid fuckery.




Quoting MommieSDW:

I'm a little shocked that if you're a step mom and you know what Starry Rain has been put through by this woman, you'd be anything less than empathetic.





Quoting beaularson91:

Hhhmmmm seems like you didnt get the support you were looking for from the SMs so posted somewhere where you would.... I'm far from saying anything positive about the BM but come on....this sounds like your just looking for anything to make fun of her..... People change the spelling of names all the time its not so uncommon or difficult to pronounce...your grasping here...








Quoting StarryRain:

Yup. In July.




She named her.... BAH HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA... Saphire (yes, one p) Jorndynne. Um.. How do you pronounce that middle name, and why spell Sapphire wrong??




When she had her, we didn't talk to SD for over a month. She refused to let her call us.










Quoting Courtney610:

Did she have her baby? I don't remember an update on that.


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