The story of my life is pretty much this, before being with my child's father, I was a party girl and this and that, I was not matured enough. When I got pregnant him & I decided to stay together and try to work it out. We couldn't. And I was talking to a friend, female, which later on we became partners. We've been together for a year and 2 months, he stopped helping me with diapers, food, taking care of him, like literally everything. He never tries to visit him and never even calls to see how my little guy is doing. But her, she helps with EVERYTHING. My family just hates the fact that I'm with a female and they keep saying that my baby shouldn't grow up to this. But, I'm happy and most importantly HE'S HAPPY. As soon as he see's her coming, he automatically starts smiling and crying for her to hold him. I know she loves us both because of her actions, but .. Sorry girls I needed to vent .. I know I'm not the only one out there like this.