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So so frusterating!

Posted by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:24 AM
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Im very frusterated.  Heres the back story...

I am 23 and have been clean and sober for 3 years.  I met the father of my child at a clean and sober get together.  He had 2 years... Since being pregnant he split started doing drugs again.  Was there for the birth and the two weeks after then split again.  He is suppossedly going to treatment next week.  The deal is he is not allowed to see anthony until he can pee clean.  However i worked out something with a mutual friend so he can see him before treatment even though after all the crap that he has said to me he really doesn't desearve it... Im very much trying to separate my feelings about him which is all anger. from his and anthony's relationship if he chooses to have one. Tonight his cousin texted me can i have anthony for a few hours tomorrow. I told her we had plans but i could stop by for a little while so she can see him. Her responce was oh nevermind.  They live next to eachother.....Now my instinct says they are trying to be sneaky so ryan can see his son.. am i over thinking it? He hasn't seen Anthony in over a month and has been nothing but ugly to me until recently since he wants to get "clean" again. he agreed that 30 days clean was fair for a visit at my house with my family present.  though if he goes to treatment he might get to see him before he enters. But now im feeling like they are trying to go behind my back and it infuriates me!  So are they being sneaky or am i being over protective.

by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:24 AM
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Unoriginal.
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 4:42 AM
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You need to go through the court and get supervised visitation at a center.

I wouldnt let the baby go to the friend's house at all.

GwenGray
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 5:01 AM

this!

Quoting Unoriginal.:

You need to go through the court and get supervised visitation at a center.

I wouldnt let the baby go to the friend's house at all.


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BrownEyedGirl86
by Silver Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 5:30 AM
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They can be sneaky and take your child and you'd have to then file w courts to get him back!!!!

But to your question do I think they were being sneaky. Yes.

I wouldn't let your child alone w anyone that knows him until he got hell


Quoting Unoriginal.:

You need to go through the court and get supervised visitation at a center.

I wouldnt let the baby go to the friend's house at all.

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BrownEyedGirl86
by Silver Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 5:30 AM
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Quoting BrownEyedGirl86:

100% this

They can be sneaky and take your child and you'd have to then file w courts to get him back!!!!



But to your question do I think they were being sneaky. Yes.



I wouldn't let your child alone w anyone that knows him until he got hell




Quoting Unoriginal.:

You need to go through the court and get supervised visitation at a center.

I wouldnt let the baby go to the friend's house at all.

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AA2.0
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 5:43 AM
Agreed.

Quoting Unoriginal.:

You need to go through the court and get supervised visitation at a center.

I wouldnt let the baby go to the friend's house at all.

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AndrewsMommy01
by on Jan. 11, 2013 at 5:47 AM

They are being sneaky. Get some kind of order through the court for supervised visits.

rwebb11
by Bronze Member on Jan. 11, 2013 at 7:33 AM
They are tying to do something sneaky. Don't let him go anywhere with out you until he is getting help. I hope everything works out.
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