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I was just curious how many kids everyone has. I'm 25 with 3 kids; my kids are 2, 3, and 5, just found out I am currently expecting my fourth. My three children have birthdays within the first half of the year so they will be 3, 4, and 6 when the baby comes. :)

If you have as many kids as I do, do people tend to judge you? I get it a lot and it's getting aggravating. I have a college degree and my husband and I are both working, but they still look at us as irresponsible :(

"Life isn't measured by how many breaths you take, but by how many moments take your breath away."
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 5:15 AM
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naj2013
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:17 PM
I'm 23 years old, s/o is 36 years old . We have a 2 year old dd and one on the way. As far as being judged, not that i know of.
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NyiaBaby216
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:20 PM
I'll be 22 next month & have a 3 yr old DS & DD will be 4 in 2 weeks. Im currently 28 wks with my 3rd and yeah people judge me, but whatevs. My children are happy & healthy and thats all that matters
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Meg2011425
by Gold Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:23 PM
I'm 25 and I have a DS who turns 4 on the 30th. Yes I'm judged but I've gotten used to it.
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rockabillybetty
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:27 PM
Forget everyone and their"opinions" on people with more then 2. My SIL is expecting her 6th baby although i think wtf was she thinking i also think BETTER HER THEN ME! Lol my nieces are awesome can't wait for my nephew to come. Im 27 with 3 babies 6, 4 and 1month. I wouldn't trade them for the universe :))
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HeathLaw22
by Member on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:27 PM

I am 21 and currently expecting my second in May. People judge me, I get lots of dirty looks whenever I go anywhere, and it isn't just because I am pregnant. It started when I was pregnant with my first. I think people think I am a teenager and they tend to judge me as being some sort of stupid teen mother who doesn't know how to protect herself. It has only gotten worse since I got pregnant.

anthonysmom1012
by on Jan. 13, 2013 at 10:55 PM

23 with one son

EmersedRain
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 2:45 AM

Im 26 and have 2 kids  ( 4 & 3 ) with 1 on the way. I really don't pay attention to what others are thinking about it, just go on about my day really.

Cassandra1984
by Cassandra on Jan. 14, 2013 at 7:22 AM

I'm 28 and have five kids. They are 10, 9, 5, 4 and 1 month.


shylynn22
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 7:27 AM
21 with 4 kids. 2 where adopted. 2 live with me. So i usually tell people irl that i have 2
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shylynn22
by on Jan. 14, 2013 at 7:30 AM
Oh and the people that judge me are my family. Not that they can talk, but the do.

Quoting shylynn22:

21 with 4 kids. 2 where adopted. 2 live with me. So i usually tell people irl that i have 2
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