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You think he can get custody?

Posted by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 9:53 PM
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My boyfriend is from Mexico. Hes been here for 20 Years and has 3 kids by his ex. She isn't able to take care of them and tonight she had called because she's in jail for a CDV charged toward her bf. can my bf which is the father get custody of his kids if he can prove she's an unfit mother. He wants custody and wants to take them home to Mexico the thing is he's illegal. Do u think it's possible to get the kids away from her?
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busymom64064
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 9:57 PM

I have no idea. I would think that they would deport him because he is illegal. Maybe he would have to go to mexico first and then try to get custody through a lawyer down there or something. however, he might have to explain why he has children in the U.S. in the first place.

I dont support illegal aliens in this country. if they cant get into the country the right way, they should not be here in the first place. Sorry, but this is just my honest opinion. This subjec tis a very heated debate so I will just shut my mouth before I ramble even more.

Good luck though

DolphinFan85
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 9:58 PM
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 marry him and make him legal and then he can have his kids

karamelkat9
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 9:59 PM

Yeah I would think he would have more problems arrising if he is gonna go to court here and not be legal.

vwd_johnson
by Valerie on Jan. 16, 2013 at 10:01 PM
No while he's illegal they will deport him.

Marry him

Or take it up in mexico is all I can think of.
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krystaal870
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 10:05 PM
I use to have problems with illegals too but what's the use. A lot of people do not like them but in my opinion they do jobs Americans don't wanna do. What about the Russians? I know a lot of exchange students that are illegal but nothing is said about them. Why cause there white? They don't deal drugs? Wrong! They steal where I live at and so many have got caught so I don't care how much you want to rumble upon the conversation. I'm just asking a question about custody of kids
TexasWife
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 10:23 PM

I don't think it has to do with the color of their skin. I may be dense but I have always thought it was more about attitude. Not the attitude of the illegal but the attitude of some Americans. Right now I have a problem with some of Halliburtons exchange workers. Some of them are super nice but some are the biggest jerks. They will throw their money at us and say inappropriate things. Like one begged me to come to his room later that night. I am a cashier just trying to do my job.

Quoting krystaal870:

I use to have problems with illegals too but what's the use. A lot of people do not like them but in my opinion they do jobs Americans don't wanna do. What about the Russians? I know a lot of exchange students that are illegal but nothing is said about them. Why cause there white? They don't deal drugs? Wrong! They steal where I live at and so many have got caught so I don't care how much you want to rumble upon the conversation. I'm just asking a question about custody of kids


krystaal870
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 10:33 PM
Oh wow that's crazy. I use to get that too when I was younger and hated it!
proudmama11212
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 10:42 PM
Well i think he can using the right lawyers personally i am married with an illegal alien and we are not currently working on our papers due to financial issues anyways thats not the point. Though i dont think he can just take them to mexico without any contact with the mother
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ambermarie2006
by Amber on Jan. 16, 2013 at 11:07 PM
He will have a hard time while being an illegal because they will deport him. Were the kids born in the US? It becomes tricky when you have kids who are citizens of one country, and parents from another.
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busymom64064
by on Jan. 16, 2013 at 11:15 PM
I didn't say anything about color. I dont care.what country a person is from. If they came here illegally, they should either become a citizen or go back home. I wouldn't want to live in constant fear of deportation.


Quoting krystaal870:

I use to have problems with illegals too but what's the use. A lot of people do not like them but in my opinion they do jobs Americans don't wanna do. What about the Russians? I know a lot of exchange students that are illegal but nothing is said about them. Why cause there white? They don't deal drugs? Wrong! They steal where I live at and so many have got caught so I don't care how much you want to rumble upon the conversation. I'm just asking a question about custody of kids

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