I have been married to my husband for almost 3 years we have a 2 yr old and i have a 7 yo son from a previous marriage. my sons dad hasn't seen him in 2 yrs he is an alcholic and not involved by his choice. my husband took on my son as his. He doesn't treat him any differently than our daughter. no he doesn't do a lot of activities like play ball or get out in the yard with him..but he does things like homework w/him, reading to him and taking care of him when he is sick. he just isn't the outdoorsy type. anyway my Mother is very opinionated and very close to my son. we recently had him tested for ADHD cause his teacher requested for us to. my husband didnt know if he had to work or not that day say i made plans for my mom to go with me to the appt. he wound up not working but still didn't go. But he wants to go to the next appt which is when we sit down w.the doctor and discuss the diagnosis and whether he needs med or Not.. my mom wants to go to this appt. she says that I "Forget to ask important questions".. which i do not. I might add in here that i am nearly 27 but she seems to forget. i know she means well, but i dont think my husband wants my mom to go in fact i know he wont want her to. well i told her today that my DH was going to go. and she got all upset saying she doesn't even understand WHY my dh would wanna go. and that she is around my son so much more and that he doesn't do much with him. she thinks my dh is lazy and is always complain cause he doesn't go to church and things that in My opinion aren't her problem. i think that if i am happy with my marriage that is waht is important..i said He works hard he took my son on as His he wants to be there. he isn't like my ex who had a drug and alchohol problem and treated me like crap.. he works hard he is in school and workin a fulltime job..he just went to eat lunch with my son at school.. I think that my mother is out of line and needs to respect my husband. my she thinks im bein "crazy" and her and my dad said im trying to start things. am i bein crazy or is she outta line here?