My husband is military, currently deployed, has PTSD from a previous deployment. Shortly before leaving for deployment he had an emotional affair with a female soldier. He ended the affair, told her to stay away, and we put our marriage back together. Shortly before he came home for R&R, she arrived at his new post. He has no desire to continue their affair, but she won't leave him alone, and he can't tell his bosses because then he has to admit the previous wrong doing. At this point he has pretty much lost his mind over it. He keeps saying "my only way out is to die". I could report his suicide threat, but he said that would just push him to it. I don't know what to say or do to give him comfort from 3000miles away. On top of all this is the fact that on his last deployment his now ex wife cheated on and left him. So not only is he dealing with stalker girl, he worries that he may lose me through sheer loneliness, or loneliness in combination with stalker girl. I love this man with all my heart, but I have no idea how to help him.
on Mar. 5, 2013 at 6:59 AM