Not ever going to happen!
So my dh and I have been married for 5 years and have a 3 1/2 year old and another due in June. We met after college and both have had other relationships before, no big deal. My dh has this one ex girlfrield (they dated for about 6 years) and they have remained friends. I have no issues with her, they have a lot of mutual friends and we have gone to weddings, parties and things where she was there, again... no big deal, she is actually very nice.
This is where it gets complicated... the other day, my dh mentioned that his ex's mom emailed him and had asked if when we go to the lake for our "babymoon" in a couple of weeks (her mom has a lake house there as well) if she could babysit and be "nanny" (which is what her grandkids call her).
I could tell that he was nervous to talk to me about it, so obviously he thought it was weird that she asked. However he was literally waiting for me to answer. I didn't know what to say, it's not like we don't have plenty of family offering to babysit anytime. I finally just told him that I thought it was odd that she wants to build a relationship with our son when she has her own grandkids and has never spent any time with our kid, and I'd have to think about it.
We have a great marriage and have never had any jealousy issues, and I don't think that is what this is either, it's just really weird to me that she wants to be involved in her daughters ex boyfriend's family.
I'm not too sure how to approach this one, I don't want to say what I'm thinking "HELL NO!!" but he wouldn't have even asked me if he didn't want to consider it. Normally he would have just blown it off.
So... What Would You Do?