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I'm scared hes going to be a school shooter (update)

Posted by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 7:47 AM
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So my younger brother (he's 15) has some issues. Severe adhd, severe porn addiction along with an electronic addiction (video games) he has stolen hundreds of dollars from my mom, has destroyed hundreds of dollars worth of property, and is an extremely good liar. He's been very short tempered since he was young and when he was in 2ndhis grade the school psychiatrist told us he has similar personality traits as the boy who shot up Columbine ...



Well, I found out he was suspended and might possibly be expelled and charged with a class 6and felony. He took his laptop to school and was making a recorded document and in the description wrote "PEOPLE WERE KILLED DURING THE MAKING OF THIS FILM"



Uhh...scary much? My mom has said if he is expelled she's sending him to a psyche ward where he can get the help he needs. We've tried everything. My mom is scared of him because he is twice her size. He shows fear of me when he pisses me off, because he knows I don't take his crap.



Im so scared he's going to be that kid. I don't want to be the sister of a psychopath...


Update: Monday my mom has a meeting with his school...we find out if he gets to go back to class...or if he will be expelled...and possibly charged with a Class 6 Felony. My mom has said that if he expelled shes going to admit him to a psyche ward...I think that will be a good idea because if hes serious about all of this, he can get the help and medications he needs...and if not, he will see what happens when you act serious about this kind of stuff

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MaddieKate
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 8:03 AM

 My brother has similar issues.
He was diagnosed with aspergers, ADHD, speech delay, implusive and agressive behavior, sensory integration problems and I believe(although hes yet to be diagnosed) that he is also suffering from bipolar(my dad does).
While he does fly off the handle and we have been in MANY physical altercations he wouldnt ever hurt us in the way that you're afraid your brother might. Maybe he just needs someone to talk to? Maybe he feels lonely, left out, unloved?
You could maybe try asking him.
Or better yet, have your mom try asking him.
If she shows fear he will NEVER respect her the way that he should.
Throwing him in a psyche ward may help for a little while, but he's also just a 15 year old boy. I have a 17yr old brother(the one I was talking about), and a 16yr old brother and both are obsessed with death and destruction and ICP and all other scary/stupid things, as well as porn and video games and their phones, laptops, ipods, etc. Money's gone missing from both my parents AND myself. But they really arent bad kids.

Good luck with everything!

RaevynEvermore
by on Mar. 8, 2013 at 10:58 AM
Im very involved with his life, I take him out to lunch twice a week and we talk everyday. He's very open with me and I seem to be the only one that knows how to calm him down....makes me wonder if he sees me as his mother figure. He doesn't obsess over death and his favorite band is Green Day. Im bipolar so im curious if he is too


Quoting MaddieKate:

 My brother has similar issues.
He was diagnosed with aspergers, ADHD, speech delay, implusive and agressive behavior, sensory integration problems and I believe(although hes yet to be diagnosed) that he is also suffering from bipolar(my dad does).
While he does fly off the handle and we have been in MANY physical altercations he wouldnt ever hurt us in the way that you're afraid your brother might. Maybe he just needs someone to talk to? Maybe he feels lonely, left out, unloved?
You could maybe try asking him.
Or better yet, have your mom try asking him.
If she shows fear he will NEVER respect her the way that he should.
Throwing him in a psyche ward may help for a little while, but he's also just a 15 year old boy. I have a 17yr old brother(the one I was talking about), and a 16yr old brother and both are obsessed with death and destruction and ICP and all other scary/stupid things, as well as porn and video games and their phones, laptops, ipods, etc. Money's gone missing from both my parents AND myself. But they really arent bad kids.

Good luck with everything!


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RaevynEvermore
by on Mar. 9, 2013 at 7:57 PM

bump w/ update

MMerrill
by on Mar. 10, 2013 at 8:31 PM

I think that's a rather blunt way for a professional to tell you guys that... either way I think weather he is expelled or not he needs to be taken to a behavioral health center, they can hopefully help him!!

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