My husband just told me I have to find somewhere to go. I work at McDonald's. I don't know where I'm going to move to with such short notice. I did just get a student loan refund today. That should help, but, I'm so scared. :(
**Update: Well after the initial argument, after we both calmed down a lot, he decided that he doesn't want to lose me and our kids, after all. He FINALLY, after almost a year of trying to convince him, agreed to go to couples therapy. This is the last chance he's getting. I've said that before, but we never tried therapy before. I'm really hoping that we can start to see things differently with the help of someone who is neutral in the situation. We both have plenty of friends and family, but, of course, they are not neutral. My family takes my side and his takes his side.
As for the c/s situation, if we do split up, I won't pursue it because it'll be a lost cause. I'd rather just let him provide what the girls need. As long as he's doing something for them, the money it saves me goes into an account to save for them, or plan a trip for us.