When you tell your SO/ DH how you feel does he turn it around about how you mke hin feel or how bad you do him? Well my SO does this. Examples being that today i told him that " i know you may not feel this way but your comment youbjust said made me feellike you dont care if im sick, hurting etc if you say sonething it should be done like you dont have to help clean up or something". He says that well how about when you say thingsthat come off a certain way how you think i feel. Its been this way since year one (2011) i told him that by mebeing 20yo and having two kida back to back i have stretch marks and a little pudge. I didnt want him to think i was unattractive. He got upset and went off saying that i make him feel like a monster for what i say and blah blah. He talks to me like im achild and this is a submissive relationship. If im feeling down he never gives me that comfort i need he just makesit about him. Esp when i was pregnant with ds2 , we argued he bitched and moaned and i started having bad pains and went to the hospital. He was two hrs awaybso my parents took me. He finished doing what he was doing which was letting his uncle hook up speakers in the truck,and then called me starting more stuff , arguing and came to the hospital. Didnt ask how i was, what the docs say nothing. He just had an attitude because my dad called him out on putting speakers before me and arguing while possibly in labor. Am i wrong? Is he? I just need aome advice on how to handle this because with this along with other stuff i need a break. But if i left he wants ds1 to stay becauae he doesnt want him getting spoiled even more but i can take ds2 since he is a baby. I wouldnt dare leave my kids to stay he couldnt handle them considering he never has them besides if he playing with them or trying to show them off. Im just at a UGH with him right now.