need advice? not sure what to say to the "other" girl
My brother was born Nov. 4th 2012. My mom is 46 years old. I love my brother and i love my mom this is not what this is about. LOL. My sister is going to be 22 years old and got pregnant by a low life who still lives with his baby mama. we shall call him david cause thats his name lol. my sisters name is Shell(thats what we will call her) well she is due in sept and im happy for her. this is going to be her first baby and im trying to make it a better situation than it is. i love my sister to death. but Davids other baby mama his g.f well she is one of my good friends and i haven't been able to tell her because my sister wants david to tell her, even though i know he won't do that. Should i tell her??? shes one of my best friends but i love my sister and want to respect her. But every time i see david and my sister together it makes me mad that they could do this, exp. cause my sister and davids g.f are "friends" idk. my other question is my sister said if she has a boy she doesn't want the baby so my mom feels obligagted to take the baby. we won't because im not up for open adoption, that just my preferance. but my mom is 46 and already had another baby. i don't feel my mom should have to care for her baby when she is 22 years old, has a job, and a place. and its unfair to the baby. i think its selfish she would only want the baby if the babys a girl. idk. i feel so confused on what to say or do in these situations??