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Stay at home moms...do you...? Updated.

Posted by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:55 PM
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Do you have a plan as to what you would do if your husband up and left you? Where would you go? What would you do?


So most if you would continue to mooch off your husbands, then. Gotcha.
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erin708
by Silver Member on Apr. 18, 2013 at 9:58 PM
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I would stay right where I am. I would get a big alimony check with child support. Obviously get a job but his ass would be finding somewhere else to live.
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mlogsdon
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:06 PM
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I'd stay right here. If he decided to get up and leave, the military would bring him right back lol. Pending whatever action the military takes on that, I would be able to stay in this house long enough to figure out what to do. But- I would go stay with family back home. It would be difficult to do, but I'm only here because of him.

If he just decided to divorce, same thing. He would stay in single soldier quarters and I would have some time to prepare.
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Liudmyla
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:12 PM

I would be the one to leave and go back home to Ukraine and he would raise our kids on his own.

Cassidysmom611
by Silver Member on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:22 PM
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I would stay in our apartment. My Dad owns it and we pay him rent each month. However, my Dad wouldn't kick us out. 

I am a SAHM but hoping to be a working Mom again in the winter. If he left me, I would just go back to work sooner. I have many skills, and good work ethic. 

agrisham13mom
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:24 PM
I would move back to where my family is and work as an RN since that is the degree I hold
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Lesliepp4455
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:26 PM
I would get a job ASAP! Lol I have two babies 1 one year old and a 2 month old. I have no help from anywhere so as far as where I'd live I guess with family untill I get up on my feet.
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agrisham13mom
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:26 PM
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You would be ok with going to another country and leaving your children?

Quoting Liudmyla:

I would be the one to leave and go back home to Ukraine and he would raise our kids on his own.

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Lesliepp4455
by on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:27 PM
I could /would NEVR leave my babies. How can you as a mother?


Quoting Liudmyla:

I would be the one to leave and go back home to Ukraine and he would raise our kids on his own.


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ambermarie2006
by Amber on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:28 PM
Always have a back up plan. I am thankful I had mine.
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Allons-y
by Rose Tyler on Apr. 18, 2013 at 10:32 PM
Yes I have a plan. Housing is stable so I'd be filing for Child Support and getting a job.
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