Is anyone proud their child is an accident, like you brag about the fact that they just happened? SIL has four kids and aparently all of them are accidents, and she pretty much brags and thinks it is really funny. Both of my kids were planned though for some reason no one believes DH and I that we planned both pregnancies. I feel really upset that people think my children were accidents, and when people say things about them being accidents I get really offended. I have actually gotten in a family memebers face and yelled at them about how no matter what if they were planned or not no child is an accident, they are all blessing's and should be treated as such. I personaly believe if you get pregnant on accident that doesn't make your baby an accident, because you choose to keep your child on purpose, even if you are against abortion there is adoption. And even if you don't agree with me, why would you think being proud of having an accidental pregnancy would be okay?